Silfren wrote...
1) Elves wanting to stay out of human cities to reduce the chances of intermarriage does not automatically equate to forced marriages and forced births. It's quite possible for the elves to simply want to stay out of non-elven lands without ever progressing into draconian laws amongst their own people.
The forced birth and forced marriage derives from the same moral obligation that you posit justifies the segregation in the first place: the preservation of a "race".
Think about the point you're making.Interbreeding is only a threat if elves actually want to interbreed. Segregation is only a solution if it stops elves from doing that - if it forces them
not to choose to pair up with humans when they would. As I discuss below, if the elves don't want to intermarry then there's no problem.
2)The elves themselves might feel differently about the idea of fading out of racial existence...especially since among human lands, that would effectively be the end of their culture and language as well.
Then your point is irrelevant, because elves won't choose to interbreed in ways that would ever jeorpadize what being elven currently means - in the physical/magical sense.
Either elves feel differently - in which case there is no problem at all - or elves want to interbeed at levels that actually threaten something, in which case it's their choice and no problem at all.
3) We're not talking about real world fascist practices using racial superiority as an excuse to do horrific things to people. The elves face literal extinction if they interbreed with other races on a large scale.
That's what the real world racists believe! Go ahead and try and convince one of them that being whatever nationality they think "white" really means isn't a race ,and that interbreed with whatever nationality these nutbags think "isn't white" won't mean the "extiction" of "white" people.
Look, I get that in Thedas, elves are actually distinct from humans in important ways that would justify us saying they're a different "race" in a way we could never say for actual humans. But the loons IRL believe that about the clearly fake categories of "race".
That's where the equivalence is.