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I hope S/S romance party banter in Inquisition will b more like it was in DA2


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eluvianix wrote...

101ezylonhxeT wrote...

I can kinda see what you mean now but hopefully Bioware fixes this problem in DA3 and ME4 i just hope they don't go the DA2 way again.


Is this the whole "realism" argument?


I just find that everybody in your entire companion cast being bisexual stupid so yes its not realistic and i prefer there be a mix bisexuals along with 100% lesbians and 100% gay men.

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Couldn't disagree more. I'd like gay romances to have some different dialogue options and reactions from party members. Otherwise, what's the point really?

To be inclusive of the homosexual audience.

I have no other incentive to play them.

So don't. Surprisingly, it's possible that same-sex romance content wasn't necessarily designed with the wants of heterosexual players in mind.

I like how it was done in Jade Empire, where Silk Fox actually had to take some time to get used to the idea of a female player character being into her. Some actual surprise that a woman would compliment her like that. I hate this ''gay, out of the closet, 100% fine with it straight off the bat'' stance that every single playersexual character in ME and DA seems to have.

Do you have any non-straight friends? Did they struggle with their sexuality? If not, do you tell them that you hate them for that reason? 

And I don't like when everybody in the world accepts it 100%. I get that it's some sort of utopic view that homosexuals have, that nobody in the world would raise an eyebrow, but it's far from realistic and most of all it's BORING. I guess I just like to be naughty, and total acceptance and tolerance makes it bland as hell.

Thedas is already full to bursting with dozens of prejudices, are those not good enough for you? Are you such a big fan of prejudice and ignorance against homosexuals specifically that you need to see them in all your entertainment products or you'll deem them 'bland' and 'boring'?

Isn't it enough to simply go outside, or turn on the news, and witness bigotry against homosexuals first-hand?

Modifié par Plaintiff, 25 novembre 2013 - 11:39 .


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Could you give examples? I'm having a hard time recalling any instance, besides Oghren, but he was supposed to be offensive, like your typical straight, male, macho husband figure in American sitcoms. Not saying any problematic moments don't exist (I can think of a few non-banter examples myself). I would just would like to know specifically what you're thinking of.

if this might help
http://dragonage.wik...Oghren/Dialogue


Oghren: So, uh, what did you do with her legs?
Alistair: Whose legs?
Oghren: Her legs. That's the problem with dwarven legs. They're useless as an accessory.
Alistair: I didn't do anything with them. I don't know what--
Oghren: Ah, say no more. Just got 'em outta the way and went about your business. Good on you, son.
Alistair: Uhm. Thanks.

Oghren is a legend.

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101ezylonhxeT wrote...

ME3 did S/S relationships better then DA2 and was more realistic.

Yes, it's super realistic that so few people would be open to homosexual relationships in a setting where people regularly date outside their own species.

Who gives a screaming **** about 'realism'? The entire point of fiction, especially sci-fi and fantasy fiction, is that it is different from reality.

Besides which, in reality, history documents several societies where homosexuality and bisexuality were much more common and accepted. So the notion that having four bisexuals in one group of acquaintances is "unrealistic" is uninformed at best, if not outright fallacious.

Modifié par Plaintiff, 25 novembre 2013 - 11:36 .


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So now even the npcs have to worry about political correctness?


Yup. Ain't it grand?:D


Political correctness kills the soul of diversity.

If treating other people with respect kills anyone's 'soul', then they didn't deserve one in the first place.

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Plaintiff wrote...

M25105 wrote...

eluvianix wrote...

M25105 wrote...

So now even the npcs have to worry about political correctness?


Yup. Ain't it grand?:D


Political correctness kills the soul of diversity.

If treating other people with respect kills anyone's 'soul', then they didn't deserve one in the first place.


Neutering of language, the new thing today.

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M25105 wrote...

Plaintiff wrote...

M25105 wrote...

eluvianix wrote...

M25105 wrote...

So now even the npcs have to worry about political correctness?


Yup. Ain't it grand?:D


Political correctness kills the soul of diversity.

If treating other people with respect kills anyone's 'soul', then they didn't deserve one in the first place.


Neutering of language, the new thing today.

It's more like the utlization of better language.

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M25105 wrote...

Plaintiff wrote...

M25105 wrote...

eluvianix wrote...

M25105 wrote...

So now even the npcs have to worry about political correctness?


Yup. Ain't it grand?:D


Political correctness kills the soul of diversity.

If treating other people with respect kills anyone's 'soul', then they didn't deserve one in the first place.


Neutering of language, the new thing today.

Your language is wrong. It should be neutered.

There's nothing 'political' about simply treating other people fairly. It's only an issue because people like you want to make it one.

Modifié par Plaintiff, 25 novembre 2013 - 11:42 .


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M25105 wrote...

Comedians aren't a legitimate source for anything except their own subjective opinions. And that includes the ones that aren't screaming douchenozzles.

And nowhere in that rant does Carlin say anything remotely relevant to the presence of homosexuals or homosexuality in fiction.

Modifié par Plaintiff, 25 novembre 2013 - 11:55 .


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I can never understand why the romance threads always get so much traction. Just give me a cute guy, a cute girl, and a funny companion. If I get that, we good.

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Gamlen is a boss by the way, a boss that fails at managing money, but still a boss.

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M25105 wrote...

Gamlen is a boss by the way, a boss that fails at managing money, but still a boss.

Lol

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JusticarFlareon wrote...

I can never understand why the romance threads always get so much traction. Just give me a cute guy, a cute girl, and a funny companion. If I get that, we good.

Gurl, you know we like to talk about the hot guys we are gonna get!^_^

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eluvianix wrote...

JusticarFlareon wrote...

I can never understand why the romance threads always get so much traction. Just give me a cute guy, a cute girl, and a funny companion. If I get that, we good.

Gurl, you know we like to talk about the hot guys we are gonna get!^_^

:P

Weeeeeeell... I DO want a nice younger guy who's slimmer, a muscular guy, and perhaps someone in between. So basically, Cullen, Iron Bull, and Varric. :wub:

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Cullen, Varric and Iron Bull aren't young though.

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Cullen, Varric and Iron Bull aren't young though.

Whoops, I keep thinking Cullen is that young Templar from the Mage origin. Hm... He can fit, doe. I headcanon that he was like 18-19 in DA:O so ten years later, he's like 28-29. Still room to look young and cute.

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JusticarFlareon wrote...

hhh89 wrote...

Cullen, Varric and Iron Bull aren't young though.

Whoops, I keep thinking Cullen is that young Templar from the Mage origin. Hm... He can fit, doe. I headcanon that he was like 18-19 in DA:O so ten years later, he's like 28-29. Still room to look young and cute.

I am still holding out for the threesome option. Or maybe even the foursome!:)

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Plaintiff wrote...

101ezylonhxeT wrote...

ME3 did S/S relationships better then DA2 and was more realistic.

Yes, it's super realistic that so few people would be open to homosexual relationships in a setting where people regularly date outside their own species.

Who gives a screaming **** about 'realism'? The entire point of fiction, especially sci-fi and fantasy fiction, is that it is different from reality.

Besides which, in reality, history documents several societies where homosexuality and bisexuality were much more common and accepted. So the notion that having four bisexuals in one group of acquaintances is "unrealistic" is uninformed at best, if not outright fallacious.


I wonder if the same people who insist that DA2's handling of relationships was unrealistic are the same people who complain that PoCs can't be in Thedas because there were no PoCs in the medieval ages at all, anywhere, ever, and yet are again the same people who say that we don't need "realistic" explanations for the weirdness of elven genetics or darkspawn or even magic itself, because fantasy!

Seriously, this argument works both ways.  You can't use realism as an argument for the one if not also the other.  But it's EXTREMELY telling, the way that people get irrationally and disproportionately upset over the inclusion of LGBT content (or PoCs, because it's the same damned argument either way).  To get that upset about it says a great deal more about those person's personal agendas than anything else.

Modifié par Silfren, 26 novembre 2013 - 12:40 .


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eluvianix wrote...

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I think a part of it is how party banter functions in general. It's all about getting to the butt of some joke and can feel immature, and it can easily become demeaning. If you're making immature jokes about a subject that is sometimes treated immaturely (s/s romance) it can end up being painfully bad. In Origins especially, it was all about jokes. In DAII there were moments where they talked about situations or experiences that were funny. Situational comedy can often times be less demeaning and stereotypical.

example of a painfully bad joke in Origins (this only occurs if a male warden is in a romance with Zevran):

Oghren: So... you and the Boss, huh...?
Zevran: If by "Boss" you are referring to who I think you are, you are correct.
Oghren: Yeah... Well.... Good luck with that.
Zevran: Why, thank you ever so much.
Oghren: You might wanna...you know...keep it down though.

What is supposed to be funny? Loud (gay) sex? Oghren being uncomfortable? The Warden being the "boss"? I'm not sure.

Though DAII was not any better. If you are a male Hawke in a s/s romance and talk to Gamlen in Act 3 he makes some snide comment about not having to "ask who is the girl"....Like I get Gamlen is supposed to be a sleaze bag, but you could put more thought into the writing and not rely on tropes.


In the case of Oghren and Zevran, I am pretty sure that banter triggers in the hetro romance as well. It's a case of Oghren being innaprioprate again, not Oghren being homophobic.

That doesn't negate that the comment was homophobic in nature, depending on how you view it. Even knowing that he makes the same comment to a heterosexual Warden, people would still be offended by it.


What was homophobic about it?

Homophobic is fear of gays or hatred of gays.

Oghren is a straight male. Obviously he would be disgusted/baffled of the idea of two men being together to the point where he makes a joke about it. I can't help but laugh when I see two s/s couples kiss (yep, even lesbians). I find it funny but I have neither fear or hatred of gays.

Isabella didn't offend me with her remark that women have more uses in bed than men.

It adds to the character of the companion as opposed to everyone mindlessly accepting the sexual exploits/deeds/romances of the protagonist.

Then you have a character like Sebastian who is prudish towards it all.

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eluvianix wrote...

JusticarFlareon wrote...

hhh89 wrote...

Cullen, Varric and Iron Bull aren't young though.

Whoops, I keep thinking Cullen is that young Templar from the Mage origin. Hm... He can fit, doe. I headcanon that he was like 18-19 in DA:O so ten years later, he's like 28-29. Still room to look young and cute.

I am still holding out for the threesome option. Or maybe even the foursome!:)

Good lawd, gurl! 

...I can't say my Inquisitor will be the most, eh... pious, of people, haha. :innocent::devil:

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Silfren wrote...

Plaintiff wrote...

101ezylonhxeT wrote...

ME3 did S/S relationships better then DA2 and was more realistic.

Yes, it's super realistic that so few people would be open to homosexual relationships in a setting where people regularly date outside their own species.

Who gives a screaming **** about 'realism'? The entire point of fiction, especially sci-fi and fantasy fiction, is that it is different from reality.

Besides which, in reality, history documents several societies where homosexuality and bisexuality were much more common and accepted. So the notion that having four bisexuals in one group of acquaintances is "unrealistic" is uninformed at best, if not outright fallacious.


I wonder if the same people who insist that DA2's handling of relationships was unrealistic are the same people who complain that PoCs can't be in Thedas because there were no PoCs in the medieval ages at all, anywhere, ever, and yet are again the same people who say that we don't need "realistic" explanations for the weirdness of elven genetics or darkspawn or even magic itself, because fantasy!

Seriously, this argument works both ways.  You can't use realism as an argument for the one if not also the other.  But it's EXTREMELY telling, the way that people get irrationally and disproportionately upset over the inclusion of LGBT content (or PoCs, because it's the same damend argument either way).  To get that upset about it says a great deal more about those person's personal agendas than anything else.

They have people who actually believe that tripe here on the BSN?:blink:

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JusticarFlareon wrote...

eluvianix wrote...

JusticarFlareon wrote...

hhh89 wrote...

Cullen, Varric and Iron Bull aren't young though.

Whoops, I keep thinking Cullen is that young Templar from the Mage origin. Hm... He can fit, doe. I headcanon that he was like 18-19 in DA:O so ten years later, he's like 28-29. Still room to look young and cute.

I am still holding out for the threesome option. Or maybe even the foursome!:)

Good lawd, gurl! 

...I can't say my Inquisitor will be the most, eh... pious, of people, haha. :innocent::devil:

Oh lawd. Pious, you say? Sounds like we need to add Sebastian up in here!;)

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eluvianix wrote...

JusticarFlareon wrote...

eluvianix wrote...

JusticarFlareon wrote...

hhh89 wrote...

Cullen, Varric and Iron Bull aren't young though.

Whoops, I keep thinking Cullen is that young Templar from the Mage origin. Hm... He can fit, doe. I headcanon that he was like 18-19 in DA:O so ten years later, he's like 28-29. Still room to look young and cute.

I am still holding out for the threesome option. Or maybe even the foursome!:)

Good lawd, gurl! 

...I can't say my Inquisitor will be the most, eh... pious, of people, haha. :innocent::devil:

Oh lawd. Pious, you say? Sounds like we need to add Sebastian up in here!;)

Sebastian, Alistair, Cullen, a very holy threesome. :wizard:

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I like how it was done in Jade Empire, where Silk Fox actually had to take some time to get used to the idea of a female player character being into her. Some actual surprise that a woman would compliment her like that. I hate this ''gay, out of the closet, 100% fine with it straight off the bat'' stance that every single playersexual character in ME and DA seems to have.

Problem being that you're projecting real world attitudes into a setting that is explicitly referred to as not having any particular bias against non-heterosexual expressions.  Thedas isn't Earth; there's zero reason to assume it has earth's same prejudices.

And I don't like when everybody in the world accepts it 100%. I get that it's some sort of utopic view that homosexuals have, that nobody in the world would raise an eyebrow, but it's far from realistic and most of all it's BORING. I guess I just like to be naughty, and total acceptance and tolerance makes it bland as hell.

No, you're still not getting it, if you say that it's not realistic and that it's boring.  What would not be realistic would be for people to have problems with homosexuality in a world where no cultures taught against it.  I don't see the problem here at all.  If a culture does not teach that any sexual orientations outside of heterosexuality are deviant or sinful, then people are NOT going to have hang-ups against it.  Discomfort with homosexuality isn't something innate to people.  It is absolutely a LEARNED response.

As for the boring part, well, maybe you find it boring for people to be totally accepting of various means of sexual expression, but for you to think that that's an important consideration for the issue, you're ruling out the fact that many of us face a lot of that crap in our daily lives; we have no interest in facing it yet again in our gaming entertainment.  Why should we have to put up with it because you find it boring? Never mind the fact that declaring that homosexuality shouldn't be met with acceptance because "acceptance is boring," is appalling in its implications.  I can only guess that you don't actually have to personally deal with that lack of acceptance, to have such a blase attitude about it.  How nice for you that acceptance is boring.  For the rest of us, it's a bloody relief.

Modifié par Silfren, 26 novembre 2013 - 12:54 .