I guess I'm a Destroyer, but on my first playthrough I picked Synthesis, and Control will be my last choice to make for alt-RP-Sheps.
I like EDI (except her bot appearance, bleh).
I don't want a story with a Shepard copy at the cost of Shepard. It's either him, or no him. Either inspire the galaxy, or live along with it naturally. No wishy-washy emulation of him

(or was Shepard2.0LazarusProject.exe an emulation all along? DUN DUN DUNNN)
I honestly think I hate Cerberus more than the Reapers. In a way, I mean. While I can go into imaginationland and theorize (even before ME3's first ending) that the Reapers might have this benevolent-ish idea about the galaxy and how to run it, Cerberus are just jerks.
Illusive Man, even knowing his backstory, I can't imagine him as anyone but a Lucifer analogue that messes things up just to mess it up and get more power.
So yeah, I don't trust Shepard taking the same path as him, no matter the other supposed conditions around it.
Pretty much me least to most favorite choices go in this order:
1)Low Control
2)Bottom Destroy
3)High Control
4)Low Destroy
5)Synthesis
6)High Destroy
7)Breath Destroy
I basically consider Control the 'Ok, the cost of Destroy is too much right now but you can't afford Synthesis, guess you'll go for Control which is ok but bad but ok'.
At least in Synthesis Shepard appears to fulfill SOME destiny, even if its of another.
ALL THIS BEING SAID, I don't view the endings quite literally, so yeah, if Synthesis truly does come down to friendly husks, it can go burn and I'll at least pick Control. Yikes. Mrs. Banshee can STAY AWAY.