CynicalShep wrote...
And I'm saying that there is a reason. You want a classic king/queen pairing (medieval fantasy game and all that jazz) - you need two straight characters. Swapping them doesn't change anything - it's still a classic king and queen scenario.
And more often than not "revealing' a character's gender (or whatever you want to call it) is going to be problematic, unless it was thought out from the very beginning. I most definitely did not expect Kaidan to hit on me in ME3, and while I can't say I was fazed by it, it was just awkward (doesn't he tell you a sob story about a girl he loved in ME?).
The argument is that there is no reason why it
had to be the "classic king/queen pairing". Yeah, it's a trope and a stock fall-back for the fantasy genre, but it's not necessary, per se. There are alot of other classic fantasy tropes that they chose not to use, so they didn't
need to use this one. That's the point. I don't think anyone has a problem with this kind of dynamic being represented in the game. The problem is when that's the
only dynamic of this type in the game.
And, slightly off topic, Kaidan was revealed to be bisexual in ME 3. Therefore, it's not out of character for him to have a girl that he loved in the past. It's also not out of character for him to "reveal" that he's bisexual in ME 3. That's the thing with bisexuality. Much like transgenderism, people make assumptions and then have to deal with their dissonance after the reality has been revealed. Kaidan was
always bisexual, but you assumed he was straight because he couldn't romance MaleShep in ME 1. It's the same thing if they revealed that a character that we already knew from the DA universe was actually transgendered. You might have assumed they weren't, but they actually were all the time. You are assuming that there's been a change, but there hasn't actually been one. At least for the character.