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WIll we get balanced LIs in DA:I?


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I think the argument is that you won't often build a group of 6 friends that all happen to be bisexual during your life. I mean, it can happen, but it would definitely be surprising, unless you are looking for that quality in a friend.

The stuff said here really isn't that bad compared to some of the stuff said about gays in real life. You think it's bad, but people really have to watch what they say here, unlike real life.


I would know. I am one. I'm from the Middle East too. Still standin' though :)


Okay, that's nice, but are all your friends bi?

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Still doesn't constitute a 'small' minority in my eyes. I guess this is where we're gonna have to agree to disagree then, as my experience seem to differ vastly from yours.

Meh. Between 5 to 10 % is "small minority" in my eyes. Small enough to make "every single of the LI is somehow bi" totally nonsensical anyway.

In a company of six? We usually have 9 to 10 companions, do we not? And such a relatively small group is rather unlikely to adhere to what statistics tell us. Again, seems like we have different experiences and therefore different views.

I counted from memory without thinking about too much (the four LI, plus Varric and Aveline, was there anyone else ?), but even then it's not like one or two additionnal companions will suddendly make the "every single LI is somehow of the rarest sexual orientation possible" more believable.
And a small group is bad to deduce statistics, not to apply them. Unless there is a particular reason the group is outside the sexual norms (and there isn't), then it's just not believable to have such a convenient and improbable setup.

Every side has their black sheep, but I'd like you to keep in mind that when someone feels attacked due to sexuality, gender or something else very personal, it tends to cut a little deeper than not caring for the things you described. (Mind you, this isn't about Plaintiff, just a general thing to keep in mind when wondering why some people react in a manner you would view as exaggerated.)

I agree with that, and it's one of the reason why I find the argument "sexuality is an irrelevant part of the character" to be utterly ridiculous.
Especially when, like I said in my first posts, it's usually the persons being the most sensitive to sexual orientations who makes such claims - and strangely only when making such claims support their own vested interest.

And it only reinforce my argument that a whole character should not have his/her sexuality reseted at will depending on the PC.

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The Mad Hanar wrote...

Lebdood wrote...

The Mad Hanar wrote...

I think the argument is that you won't often build a group of 6 friends that all happen to be bisexual during your life. I mean, it can happen, but it would definitely be surprising, unless you are looking for that quality in a friend.

The stuff said here really isn't that bad compared to some of the stuff said about gays in real life. You think it's bad, but people really have to watch what they say here, unlike real life.


I would know. I am one. I'm from the Middle East too. Still standin' though :)


Okay, that's nice, but are all your friends bi?


And on top of that, 6 friends who are bisexual yet not a single one who is homosexual. 

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Lebdood wrote...

The Mad Hanar wrote...

I think the argument is that you won't often build a group of 6 friends that all happen to be bisexual during your life. I mean, it can happen, but it would definitely be surprising, unless you are looking for that quality in a friend.

The stuff said here really isn't that bad compared to some of the stuff said about gays in real life. You think it's bad, but people really have to watch what they say here, unlike real life.


I would know. I am one. I'm from the Middle East too. Still standin' though :)

Hello. Look at the bolded part.

Edit : Misread and misunderstood what I was answering to. Please disreguard this post.

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Akka le Vil wrote...

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I sincerely doubt anyone hates anyone here. 

People who argue against bisexuality would not say the same thing in person. Forums are a great place for people to clash violently while disregarding any form of respect.

You really think that I would not argue against the non-set sexuality of fictionnal characters in a video game simply because the person in front of me is not straight ?

/facepalm


Did you misquote me or something? I don't see how you could infer whatever you understood from my post.

I am for any form of debate. I don't mind it at all. It is an opportunity to attempt to convince others of my stance on a subject.

You also need to understand your fellow poster and give the person the respect they deserve whether they are gay, straight, or otherwise.

When you word your statements in a way that may make you seem like a bigot, intentionally or not, you have broken mutual respect and clashes will happen violently.

If someone says my homosexuality should be believable, then that is very disrespectful. That's what I was trying to say.

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Akka le Vil wrote...

Lebdood wrote...

The Mad Hanar wrote...

I think the argument is that you won't often build a group of 6 friends that all happen to be bisexual during your life. I mean, it can happen, but it would definitely be surprising, unless you are looking for that quality in a friend.

The stuff said here really isn't that bad compared to some of the stuff said about gays in real life. You think it's bad, but people really have to watch what they say here, unlike real life.


I would know. I am one. I'm from the Middle East too. Still standin' though :)

Hello. Look at the bolded part.


What...? You make no sense.

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Okay, that's nice, but are all your friends bi?


No but I can't apply real life demographics to a video game either.

A straight guy can play a gay dude and otherwise. So your question is moot.

I have a bisexual friend who has 3 other bisexual friends, if that is any consolation.

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Okay, that's nice, but are all your friends bi?


No but I can't apply real life demographics to a video game either.

A straight guy can play a gay dude and otherwise. So your question is moot.

I have a bisexual friend who has 3 other bisexual friends, if that is any consolation.


But you're saying that it's absolutely insulting to question how real it would be to have all of your companions to be bi, and when I apply a real life situation to it, you brush it off because "hey, we're talking about video games."

Pretty weak argument.

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Could you provide the actual argument here? You don't say why a character can't be written as gay in one playthrough but straight in another. You're implying that the two versions of the character should be more different than they are. But different how?

I don't feel like copy-pasting an entire post, so here is the link (that's the post three places above yours).


Still looking for the actual argument. All you had there was some stuff about "cheapening" the character.

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Lebdood wrote...

What...? You make no sense.

Sorry, misread your post and got the total opposite of what you actually said. My bad.

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I don't like idea of the player having companions suffering from Schrodinger-ritis, their sexualities magically changing from gay to straight  (or vice versa) to fit the PCs needs.

Ideally I would want Bioware to follow the six LI route, and due to DA:I's increased budget I think this is likely.

Just my two cents.

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Wow, alot of arguing in this thread. You should all hug it out your system :D

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Still looking for the actual argument. All you had there was some stuff about "cheapening" the character.

I provided examples and reasoning in the link. If you're going to simply ignore and disreguard whatever you don't like, feel free to do it, but I'm not interested in "discussion" with people who are clearly not willing to even argue in good faith.

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I don't like idea of the player having companions suffering from Schrodinger-ritis, their sexualities magically changing from gay to straight  (or vice versa) to fit the PCs needs.

Well said, I like the "Shrodinger-itis" part [smilie]http://social.bioware.com/images/forum/emoticons/lol.png[/smilie]

Ideally I would want Bioware to follow the six LI route, and due to DA:I's increased budget I think this is likely.

Just my two cents.

I find the "two LI for each orientation" to be massively formulaic and hardly a good sign for the supposed "artistic integrity" we heard so much of, but well that's a compromise I can live with.

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Blackrising wrote...

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Except they're not, the characters are all player sexual and will jump into bed with the player at the drop of a hat in DA2, regardless of what stance you take. It might suit your tittilation for a romance simulator, but it remains none the less utterly stupid to expect every charcter to adore the player regardless of who they are, what they do, or what they say. That is why a determined orientation is necessary if the writers are not going to put any effort into establishing a NPC's stance on a particular topic. 

So, what was your point again? Or does pointing out asinine reasoning in the above equate to persecution.


Just because you view them as playersexual does not mean that they are.
The fact that the LIs were willing to look past whatever actions Hawke took is an entirely different topic than the one we are currently discussing. In fact, I agree that certain actions or decisions should make the LI unwilling to enter into a romantic relationship. Something we are obviously going to get in DA:I, so further discussion is unnecessary. Since they have already stated that they are going to tweak the romance mechanics for DA:I (which, presumably, does mean that LIs will have firm opinions and will not be interested in someone who continuously defies that stance), then by your logic, determined orientations are not necessary, yes?

And anyway, none of that was the point of my post. I wasn't responding to your opinion about romance. My point was that Plaintiff has every reason to feel attacked when you do, in fact, insult him and have done so on other occasions in the past. As have other people, which is why I am not surprised that he reacts the way he does.


No, they are. This is non negotiable and not a matter of view or opinion. Every NPC in DA2 will sleep with the player regardless, that is specifically player sexual, and only the delusions would say otherwise.

As to the first point, yes. If the NPC is not boiled down to a walking click romance option, then it's not necessarily a specific requirement for the orientation to be pre determined, they can be, but it's not always necessary as the specific stance on certain topics precludes opening that romance option. It's a gameplay mechanics issue. If the Backstory specifies a certain relationship orientation then leave it as that, if it doesn't then it can remain open, limiting contradictions and retconns.

Plaintiff has made a monument to his own stupidity with his comments, I'm calling a spade a spade. If you want to white knight for Plaintiff after his comments, have at it, just don't be suprised when you're caught in the cross fire as well by claiming persecution when it's such utter crap.


Except the LIs going for the PC whatever they DO has nothing to do with sexuality and is therefore not part of the definiton of 'player sexuality'. And I'm sorry, but please dial back on the aggressive tone. I'd rather talk to someone who does not put other people down constantly.

But how can a background completely determine someone's sexual orientation, at least as far as we get to know it? We never know every single detail about a characters life before they met the PC. If we did, that would be a very very long game. Now if a NPC has, in the past, specifically said 'Sorry, not into men/women', then them not going for that gender is obviously fine. But just having had a relationship with a man/woman in the past does not automatically make them a hundred percent anything.

You are simply being insulting and aggressive, something that I do not think is necessary. You are free to disagree with him, with me and every other person on this board if you like, but throwing around petty insults seems like a rather immature way of dealing with disagreements. I did not claim persecution, or at least it was not my intention to. I used the word (and in ' ' , too) because you used it and I found it rather unfitting and exaggerated. It was sarcasm, if anything. And believe me, acting the part of the White Knight is not my intention. I am pretty sure he can do that himself. (But he doesn't seem to be around right now, so...)


What? It has everything to with it, what kind of logic is that? If the NPC's will jump the player regardless of the sex, views and actions it is specifically "player sexual" they will always go for the player irrelevant of any considerations, including sex. Bi sexuality does not allow an NPC to sleep with the player if they are a huge arse and oppose everything the NPC stands for, the player sexual NPC will.

If for instance, like Aveline she was married to a man, then leave it as a straight option. If Anders made refrence to a relationship as of yet undefined then leave it open to both if the writer chooses, or write it as straight, or gay specifically if they want to go that direction. Background informs the player of the orientation, if there is no specific back ground refrence then the option can be left as player sexual, but remains tied to the actions of the player in whether it is fullfilable or it can be a predetermined orrientation if the writer wants. 

Considering it is a game, not a romance sim, although the way some people push it might as well drop that pretence; are you really saying it should encapsulate when someone's orientation changes and leave it undefined? It's precisely the same retconning and confusion crap that lead issues with Anders, Lelianna still being alive despite being killed etc. Just don't do it, leave it undefined or define it, as it always ends up as a trainwreck in terms of NPC interaction.

And he is being an obtuse arse, if you are equally blinkered, should you like to throw round the accusations of bigotry and homophobia on a whim, people agreeing with him or dying, then I will treat you with the same derision, belittling and aggressive nature as I treat anything stupid which he posts. I don't have patience or time to deal with the asinine contorted logic Plaintiff spouts, so I recomend that you do not get involved, as it's not pretty


The term 'player sexuality' means SEXUALITY. Actions have nothing to do with it, just the gender of the PC. If a character never shows signs of being bisexual, but is still available to male and female PCs, they would still be considered player sexual, regardless of whether they leave when the PC is being an arse or not. At least that is my understanding of it and how I thought others would define it.

Yes, Aveline was married to a man, but she might have had relationships or an attraction to women in the past. The point is that we don't know that. We don't know what goes on inside a person and we don't know what goes on inside a fictional character. That privilege would be up to their writer.
The problem is here how to decide whether a character's orientation did indeed change or if it simply wasn't brought up before now. As I said, if a character has made a definite statement in the past along the lines of 'I'm straight/gay', 'I am not interested in men/women', 'Never felt the desire for a relationship with a man/woman' or anything like that, then by all means, don't change that.

If you think he is so wrong, then why respond to him? Retorting with insults will just escalate the situation.


You can't separate and place NPC's in a vaccum or you end up with the trian wreck that DA2 was. Where the player's actions were irrelevant, you could take every action and say things which were anathema to the stance of an NPC and you still were able to initiate a romance. That is my determination of it, the only thing that is important is the character, everything else is irrelevant.

An undefined NPC which is open to both sexes is not bi sexual if they are not defined as being so, they are undefined and open to both ie: you won't know they're undefined unless you're metagaming, but they do not necessarily allow the player to initiate something if their position is the polar opposite. Player sexuality, when it's badly done, simply ignores everything and the NPC becomes a point and click romance pixle.

You don't change orrientations, it causes too many complications, it's a RPG/ adventure game, not a romance simulator. It's a practical issue, hence the requirement to leave the NPCs undefined, or define the orrientation, straight, gay, bi, whatever and then stick to it, or it simply ends up looking like a half arsed, ill thought out mess.

If a woman was in a relationship with a man, leave it as straight. But there's nothing to stop them saying they were in a relationship, but not qualifying it, as such it remains undefined and open to both, but not bi sexual. Hence the player can make up whatever they want, the NPC was always straight, les, bi whatever.. Does that clarify it? If they imply through talking about the NPC's back ground ie: Leliana she is Bi, then leave it as Bi, it's defined. It stops things getting into a horrible tangle full of contradictions.

I see other people who are wrong, I don't treat them with the same derision, nor do I often have the time or inclination to reply. Act like he does, and I'll treat him the way he deserves to be treated as I see no reason to indulge it, nor do I have any sympathy for self inflicted martydom. 

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The Mad Hanar wrote...

Lebdood wrote...

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 You all love your mother, why must you hate each other?


I sincerely doubt anyone hates anyone here. 

People who argue against bisexuality would not say the same thing in person. Forums are a great place for people to clash violently while disregarding any form of respect.

Furthemore, the mere fact that people are still stating that sexual orientation should be "believable" is more insulting than anything really.



I think the argument is that you won't often build a group of 6 friends that all happen to be bisexual during your life. I mean, it can happen, but it would definitely be surprising, unless you are looking for that quality in a friend.

The stuff said here really isn't that bad compared to some of the stuff said about gays in real life. You think it's bad, but people really have to watch what they say here, unlike real life.



I have to say that I find this argument silly. Sure if you are a 100 percent straight person, meeting people in real life that identifies as non-straight might be less occuring, since they properly won't tell you unless you are a good friend. There is no real reason to in daily life to life after all.

But if you belong to LGBT the chance are you know somehow with your own oritation, and they knows someone who knows someone... Or you just find people in that group to hang out with because they understand your life experience having been through something alike in real life too.

I think the proverb in english is birds of a feather...

I am not sure how that applies to DA, but I don't find the fact that 4 (we only know of 4) people in one group being open to both genders stranger than all the other factors (a dalish, a pro mage fanatic, a run away tevinter slave.. etc.).

edit for a silly grammatical mistake.

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Threat300 wrote...

Wow, alot of arguing in this thread. You should all hug it out your system :D


Please, this is BSN.

The only time we ever got along (in recent memory) was when DAI info came out at Pax, and that was only for a short time before we started bickering again.

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esper wrote...

The Mad Hanar wrote...

Lebdood wrote...

The Mad Hanar wrote...

 You all love your mother, why must you hate each other?


I sincerely doubt anyone hates anyone here. 

People who argue against bisexuality would not say the same thing in person. Forums are a great place for people to clash violently while disregarding any form of respect.

Furthemore, the mere fact that people are still stating that sexual orientation should be "believable" is more insulting than anything really.



I think the argument is that you won't often build a group of 6 friends that all happen to be bisexual during your life. I mean, it can happen, but it would definitely be surprising, unless you are looking for that quality in a friend.

The stuff said here really isn't that bad compared to some of the stuff said about gays in real life. You think it's bad, but people really have to watch what they say here, unlike real life.



I have to say that I find this argument silly. Sure if you are a 100 percent straight person, meeting people in real life that identifies as non-straight might be less occuring, since they properly won't tell you unless you are a good friend. There is no real reason to in daily life to life after all.

But if you belong to LGBT the chance are you know somehow with your own oritation, and they knows someone who knows someone... Or you just find people in that group to hang out with because they understand your life experience having been through something alike in real life too.

I think the proverb in english is birds of a feather...

I am not sure how that applies to DA, but I don't find the fact that 4 (we only know of 4) people in one group being open to both genders stranger than all the other factors (a dalish, a pro mage fanatic, a run away tevinter slave.. etc.).

edit for a silly grammatical mistake.


"unless you're looking for that quality in a friend"

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Lebdood wrote...

No but I can't apply real life demographics to a video game either.

A straight guy can play a gay dude and otherwise. So your question is moot.

I have a bisexual friend who has 3 other bisexual friends, if that is any consolation.

Why couldn't we apply real-life demographics to a video game if the video game is depicting humans ? We already apply all other elements (roughly half male and female, social and governmental constructs we can understand and which could arise only due to a very close similarity with real-life humanity, same size and physical abilities, same psychology, same expected reactions and reasonings...), there is no reason to exclude sexual preferences (in fact it would be the opposite, as many social expectations would be different if humans in Thedas had widely different sexual orientations than those of Earth).

Playing a different character than who you are is roleplaying, I don't see how it's linked in any way, even remotely, to the demographics of Thedas.

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I try to act as if each PC is unique and has no metaknowledge. That won't be hard on the new game if I avoid spoilers until after my 1st playthrough. What this means as far as my companions' sexuality is that I'll hit on someone that interests me. How that person responds to my advances will determine where it goes from there. It doesn't really matter if that companion would have responded the same way if I was the other gender because I wouldn't know about it 'cause I'm not.

I enjoy the characters much more if I ignore what they were for my other PCs and focus on how they react to this one's personality.

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Err .. isn't 'playersexual' the ability to romance any LI? So no one feels alone?

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Akka le Vil wrote...
It's fun how you try to use "roleplaying"
as an argument for playersexual characters, while it actually does the
total opposite - "roleplaying" being all about pretending something is
real[/b], which would mean characters who actually HAVE set preferences in
sexuality.

Nice shoot in your own foot.


Let's see. Role playing is about PRETENDING something is real. If it's real then it isn't pretending now is it?

Can you point to any country in Thedas on a real map? Oh wait.. these countries don't exist at all. How funny that you can PRETEND they exist for the sake of role playing but can't PRETEND a potential LI is straight or gay because some other player in real life is romancing them as a different gender?

Basically you're saying you can't pretend something is real cause it isn't real.

So much for shooting myself in the foot. Image IPB

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TKavatar wrote...

Threat300 wrote...

Wow, alot of arguing in this thread. You should all hug it out your system :D


Please, this is BSN.

The only time we ever got along (in recent memory) was when DAI info came out at Pax, and that was only for a short time before we started bickering again.



BSN obviously needs a christmas truce

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Threat300 wrote...

TKavatar wrote...

Please, this is BSN.

The only time we ever got along (in recent memory) was when DAI info came out at Pax, and that was only for a short time before we started bickering again.



BSN obviously needs a christmas truce

I propose a discussion about food. Expecially deep-fried food. It worked once in a topic with the same level of heated discussion (mages vs templars).

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Threat300 wrote...

TKavatar wrote...

Threat300 wrote...

Wow, alot of arguing in this thread. You should all hug it out your system :D


Please, this is BSN.

The only time we ever got along (in recent memory) was when DAI info came out at Pax, and that was only for a short time before we started bickering again.



BSN obviously needs a christmas truce


I think it's a love/hate relationship.  We love to hate each other.

I've got my popcorn.  Nothing like a difference of views to add the salt.