Sopa de Gato wrote...
It's more so "nobody ever gets locked out of anything", which is a-ok when it comes to romance and very very bad when it comes to everything else. Yay for double standards.
Perhaps you should also understand that the topic of sexual orientation is a VERY hot topic in current worldwide events and we are facing a massive worldwide ideological change in regards to LGBT tolerance and acceptance.
BioWare is doing a very commendable act and people dismissing it because it makes the game less "real" need to take a deep breathe and reorganize their priorities.
As long as BioWare prefers the "playersexual" route in order to make everything available for everyone rather than give skewed options for the sake of "realism", then I'll take that double standard and wave it proudly.
I don't even really care, I just want two things - constant characterization, and not being penalized for not picking the same sex option. DA2 failed both of these spectacularly, and then went onto defend legitimate criticism with the tired old "Eh, they're just bigots" excuse.
You turned down a very unstable guy who later ended up blowing a chantry. Were you really surprised that he would get a little pissed if you turned him down?
Seriously, take it with a grain of salt. It's Anders. Fenris only compliments you and you can completely wave it off without a penalty.
You're not a bigot for wanting no penalty at all though (although this appeals to some min/max thinking that renders any thought of realistic roleplaying moot to begin with), but you would be one for using the "ick" factor to dismiss it to begin with.
Edit: Keep in mind, being somewhat uncomfortable with a same-sex flirt is not the problem, as it is completely natural given the current state of human culture. However, a violent or disgusted reaction to it is what makes you a bigot.
Modifié par Lebdood, 15 décembre 2013 - 04:59 .