What I find interesting, and apparently many don't, is the fact that people cared so much about their Shepard and the others that we are still talking about it. To me that says a lot about BioWares ability to write great characters and an interesting story. And they are one of the few developers that let me choose whether to be male or female, a very important option when I purchase a game.
I played all 3 games on the 360 and I played ME1 and 2 continuously from the day ME1 came out. That's a lot of saved games and I did make many choices in both games, because I could.
I chose the order I went to planets, One of my favorit things was how Liara reacted depending on when you went to pick her up. I chose to save or leave the council. I chose who lived on Virmire and occasionaly my LI died.
In ME2 I made other choices. Save the crew immediately or finish other missions, wake up Legion or don't. In the final mission send Tali or Legion; Have Garris or Zaeed take the other team, save the people in the burning building or not, Keep the facility or destroy it. I even had the option of dieing.
I'm one of the people who didn't play ME3 more than 4 times. I would have liked the nuteral response back and I would have liked less auto dialogue, but I would still be playing on the 360 if there had been one ending (just one,
not every ending, just one) where you were 100% positive that Shepard survived. And it would have been so ease to do. I didn't need to see Shepard, just hear over the loud speeker that Shepard had been found. Or with the EC show a picture of Shepard in a hospital. That top ems number with a charred body, no.
I wish they had done 3 separate games without carrying over Shepard. ME3's endings would have been ok, not great but ok, if I hadn't put in so many hours, so many years with Shepard.
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didn't hate the other endings, I even had one Shepard who picked Synthesis, though I don't trust that ending. And I still don't know why Shepard would trust the catalyst enough to do control but I never had a problem with the option being there. I like options, even ones I'm not interested in choosing right away. After playine 3 or 4 years I would have picked all them at one time or another.
When I heard about the MEHEM I waited till the series was on sale for the PC and purchased them. I'm actually sad that I've lost some ending options, but this will give me two. Die or survie. This is better to me than a charred body, so I have started playing the game series I fell in love with all those years ago. I just wish BioWare had followed through on their history of ending choices that include the survival heroic one.
I don't really care if some people think that it is "whinning" to complain about something you feel is wrong. I disagree. What ME3 did was destroy the trust I had built up from playing KOTOR, JE, ME1 & 2, DAO and DA2 BG and now I won't be pre-ordering future games. I'll wait and see what they have done.
DA:I looks good. ME4 what I've heard, which is not much, sounds like it could be interesting, but I'll wait. Unless

DG or CP wants to e-maile me privately and tell me I never have to worry again about having one option where my beloved character will survive and live their life in video space with their LI if I have one, once the game is over, I'll wait until someone I trust, not a reviewer, tells me i won't want to run into a tree after playing it.