I think because if someone is bisexual, it doesn't make them heterosexual or homosexual.
I dated a bisexual girl a few years ago. If she never told me she was into ladies as well as gents and I found out later, I'd wonder why she was keeping that from me.
Trust.
Its not a bad thing to be heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, pansexual, demisexual, transexual, etc etc(not saying anyone is saying that), but assuming a pansexual character shouldn't express the fact that gender and sex don't affect who they love, or a demisexual shouldn't express they require a romantic connection before they get the sexual tingles, at least to me seems a bit odd.
Someone shouldn't feel afraid to share a part of who they are with the one they love/fancy/have feelings for.
I didn't romance Anders with my FemHawke. He flirted with her after the Karl thing, and I thought, "Not gonna romance him, but cool that he's taking the first step"
I figured he was straight as nothing led me to believe he was attracted to both sexes.
Then I found out on the forums he's available to both sexes and I wondered why that wasn't expressed to me in game. I wouldn't think any more or less of him. I wouldn't suddenly throw a fit if he flirted with Mike Hawke if I'd of played one. But I'd of wanted to know.
It feels playersexual in my opinion, rather than any of the previously mentioned real life sexualities, because they all shared that same availability to any playable character the gamer can create, rather than being limited in some way to a PC for any particular reason. That and it wasn't brought to my attention that they were attracted to the opposite sex of my PC.
I can believe Isabella is bisexual because its expressed. It doesn't have to be so obvious of course, she kinda shoves it in your face, but if a character is attracted to both sexes, I just want to find out about it from them, one way or another. Even if its just something small like,
1-"So, here we are. Nice place, look at all these beautiful people."
2-"Ahh yes, its hard to not get lost in the eyes of some of these men and women."
1-"Oh? And here I thought you only had eyes for me."
2-"Hah, I do. But a man/lady can have his/her fantasies."
I'm perfectly willing to admit that I may miss or accidentally skip a line or two like this for some characters. In which case, I'd have to admit my assumption may be based on incomplete references/information.
But in the end of day, I'd like to know who the person I'm romancing is, rather than having them hide that part of who they are because of an excuse like, "whats the point?"
Modifié par LPPrince, 05 février 2014 - 07:00 .