EntropicAngel wrote...
Jaulen wrote...
You didn't think at the start with the whole GW thing that there was a WHOLE LOT they weren't telling you about the burdens of being a GW? And why it was only GWs that could stop a blight?
The game didn't focus on it. At ALL. As I said, there was no buildup. There are no reoccurring conversations with Alistair about why a Grey Warden is necessary--you're only forcibly conscripted at the beginning, and then at the end of the game you learn why.
No buildup.
Alistair himself had been a Grey Warden for six months prior to his meeting your PC. Odds are, he, too, was recruited during a time of strife — after all, the Blight had been building in strength for months prior to the start of the game.
Odds are, Duncan and his officers in Ferelden's branch of the Grey Wardens would have told the newest members about the possibility of them having to face death if the growing darkspawn menace truly turned out to be a Blight. But leading up to the battle at Ostagar, Duncan was simply desperate to fill the ranks of the Grey Wardens in Ferelden, since the order, having been allowed back into Ferelden a mere 20 yeas earlier (9:10, to be specific), didn't have a lot of members. Heck, most people in Ferelden (outside the nobility) probably didn't even know about the order outside of legend, since it'd been banned for — what? — two centuries prior to 9:10 because the old Ferelden branch of the order violated the order's ban on getting involved in national politics.
So, you've got a lot of crap going on, and Duncan is multi-tasking, trying to get new Grey Wardens while at the same time figuring out if it was a true Blight building, or merely a surge in darkspawn activities on the surface. On top of that, he's dealing with a King Cailen, who seemingly worships the Grey Wardens and builds them up to beyond mythical status ... something that you can tell Duncan was not comfortable with.
Then Ostagar happens, and it's a real Blight that hits the fortress and its defenders with far more darkspawn numbers than the defenders can handle. Duncan and the rest of the Grey Warden Order in Ferelden dies heroically, save for two new (and relatively young) Grey Wardens who, tragically, are left to not only fend for themselves, but are also left to assemble a new army to take on the Blight before it destroys Ferelden and use what's left of the nation as a launching pad into the rest of Thedas.
With all of this in mind, I can see where Duncan might not have immediately told the newest Grey Wardens that, hey, if the Archdemon presents itself, you have to give up your own life to truly kill it.
Plus, I also believe Duncan was trying to "shield" the new Grey Wardens to a degree. It backfired on him, of course, when he and his officers died at Ostagar, before they could fully educate Alistair and the PC on what it truly entailed to be a member of the legendary Grey Warden Order.