Except that I'm not in "your little corner", and I'm being accused of being a brick wall because instead of biting to the bait, I do ask "what difference does it make". It makes it really hard to take some people seriously when they can't engage in conversation about something w/out resorting to "what, you can't understand why I'm calling you a dick?".
Considering the topic title, wouldn't this be considered a "hater" thread? I mean, seriously, it's kind of flame baity as presented. As we can see by the post immediately above this one, some Cullen fans are out with claws bared, ready to rip dissenters to shreds for having the nerve to disagree about Cullen, and for being puzzled about why they would even post in a thread that they find offensive. I mean seriously, I'm a dick for attempting to wrap my head around why someone would open themselves up for this kind of "abuse" and then rail against the "abuse"? I don't see, I don't get it and I guess I never will, because when called on it, it's all "but it's their fault for starting the threads, otherwise we stay in our little corner".
I haven't accused you of anything. You don't like Cullen fine. If you're not flaming the fans, fine. You did say you feel attacked by fans which I find odd because all I see are fans who are responding to you saying you don't like him in the manner of discussion you seemed to be offering with your input. Or were you expecting to just speak and get no replies? The claws have only come out in response to those who ARE flaming the fans. It's odd to me that their response to being insulted is something you feel applies to you just because you don't like Cullen. It's not the not-liking-Cullen that brings out the "claws". Again I say, if you don't like Cullen, I have no problem with you. If you're not bashing the fans; I have no problem with you. I don't know of a Cullen fan who would. After my initial reply to the topic - which was all about Cullen and why I think some people see him as fanservice, btw - I responded to you about feeling attacked simply for not liking Cullen when I don't see it. I don't see gross generalizations about you being tossed your way and I find it tacky that you'd manifest indignation for a defense that's not aimed at you. Because if you're not fan bashing then the defense isn't in response to you. It never was.
Many of these threads could be flame bait - they certainly seem to be. But many of the OPs making them insist they really want answers. And most of us fans, being helpful folks and glad to engage in character discussion, offer up some perspectives. Ideally that's what the board is for. No one is "opening themselves up for abuse". They just want to participate in a good discussion. For my part, I truly hope they are sincere and happily engage them as long as it's respectful. Inevitably that changes and the derogatory remarks begin. So I should just not participate at all then? Stay away so the little trolls won't have to see my unsightly "Cullenitis"? Because they can't have some respect for others of a differing opinion, I should stay away from a post that swears it genuinely wants a constructive answer? I shouldn't offer a constructive answer? And if I do and a troll comes along and says some flamey sh!T, I should just quietly accept that and disappear because I "was asking for it"? Is that it? 
It's not my fault, or any Cullen fans' fault, that the threads deteriorate like they do. They deteriorate when the fanbashing starts. "Just don't go there" is a p!ss-poor logic. Based on your "advice" I had just better not visit the Bioware Forums at all. And then I'd be letting them affect my life. Frrraaaaag that!
So, to recap: If you don't like Cullen - I don't care! More power to ya!
If you aren't bashing the fans who do like Cullen - Great!
I have no problem with you. My ONLY point to you was about how distorted I find YOU feeling you're being attacked by the fans' defense of themselves from OTHER trolls (not you) because defending yourself from Cullen haters that call you names is NOT simply a difference of opinion (like what you were experiencing with others) and how utterly unhelpful "don't go there" is as far pieces of advice go. There are many fans who do exactly that and I find it unfair they don't feel welcome to enjoy the whole site lest they stumble upon a bridge dweller. None of us are wanting to be abused, because we're here to have fun too, but I damn well will call it out when it happens.