Why does it matter what other people think about what you like or dislike? True story: I was inside the jugs of a Harley Davidson M/C before I ever popped my first car hood, I'm an ASE Certified automotive tech. When I bought my first M/C, it was a Honda Goldwing. Literally all of my biker friends hung crap on me and my bike every time I saw them, which was all the time. But it didn't bother me, because when I got on the bike and put my face in the wind, that's all that mattered, well, that and I wasn't 2 inches shorter when I got to where I was going, unlike when I rode my boss' Sportster 45 miles back from a Toy Run.
Seriously, I don't care one wit about Cullen, as I said, he was generic Templar #6 to me. I don't care if he's in, or not in, or what role he fills if the story fits. If the story doesn't fit? I still may or may not care, it's not that big a deal. However, extending the life of a thread you find distasteful, apparently, boggles my mind. If it were me, I'd have either never replied to it, or done a one off reply of "I don't think he is" and split, never to return. Instead we have all these off topic ramblings about unrelated characters to justify a position that doesn't need to be justified to everyone else, unless you feel like you have to justify it for some reason? I mean, come on, this is the BSN, British actors can be called down for having a British accent, and, of course, so can Leliana's VA be called down for her French accent, despite being French. Is it really that important what some of these people here think?
It's not the same thing when you can get away from the crap you get for your bike. I couldn't care less what people think of
Cullen but I do care about being able to interact on these boards the same as everyone else. When romance discussion threads pop up or companion topics are started that ask who you want to see again and what did you like about DA2 and participation is fine until someone mentions
Cullen. Then it's "oh god I'm sick of hearing about him!" I shouldn't have to check my honest input because someone else can't be mature about the mention of something they don't care for. Then he was announced as being in DAI and the threads that bash fans started up anew. They're thinly veiled as "what's the big deal with
Cullen?" and when fans DO offer opinions, it's rare a real debate takes place. It usually devolves into simple character hating - which is NOT what the stated purpose of the thread is. And then it sinks to the point of bashing the fans as well until it gets closed. The fans aren't starting these. We stick to our little corner and chatter amongst ourselves yet threads like these continue pop up. You feel attacked for not caring for him? Because fans defend their right to like something? It's hard to feel like you can enjoy the rest of the boards when it's possible your input might start a flame war, just for daring to participate in a discussion and when such input starts a pages long debate in which everything you say is disputed as if they think they can change your mind rather than accept you like him for whatever reason and move on - "oh you can't like
Cullen! He's a Templar! Templars bad!" and when we don't "reform" it's "Oh you vapid fangirls". I for one will not accept fan abuse. I can like what I like and I owe no one an explanation for it and I don't deserve verbal abuse for it either. I don't demand
Cullen haters justify why they hate him. I accept that they don't like him. If they want to discuss his character, I'm down for that. You don't see
Cullen fans out there calling people who insist on asking "what's the deal" so often, stupid for not understanding our reasons. If you're not bashing the fans, you are not my problem but the
Cullen fans don't go in "with claws bared" ready to defend
Cullen in hater threads. We go into a discussion topic and offer input and get bashed eventually. So we're supposed to just stay away in case someone chooses to be a d!ck? We just quietly leave when the fan bashing starts? If our objection to that makes you feel attacked, you are the one projecting and it's not a problem I can help you with.