There is nothing in the Qun preventing Qunari from loving eachother. What you are probably referring to is the fact that Qunari cannot have a child as a result of a romantic relationship (they can, but aren't allowed), but last time I checked having a child was not a requirement for love.
They seem to believe in loving (Platonic) friendship, but do not have family units or even "romantic relationships" as we would think of them.
http://dragonage.wikia.com/wiki/QunariQunari have no "family units": they do not marry,
choose partners, or even know to whom they are related. A Qunari's "family" consists of his or her coworkers.
[4]Qunari generally do not associate mating with love. They feel love. They have friends. They form emotional bonds with one another.
However, they simply do not sleep with each other to express it. If they do, then they are sent to be reeducated by the
Ben-Hassrath. If a child is produced, the same thing happens as with all other Qunari children: it is sent to be raised by the Tamassrans, evaluated, and assigned a job. Qunari do not waste resources unnecessarily, people included.
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Reproduction is bureaucratic. Sexual/romantic love seems to be forbidden, outside their system. People do not form families. All children are raised collectively.
There is also nothing that prevents Qunari from having individual identities, these identities just aren't tied up in their name. Obviously Qunari have very different personalities, ergo they have differnet identities, they just do not form them the same way we are used to.
I guess it depends on your conception of identity.
Personally, I would want somebody to refer to me by something other than my social/occupational role.
Since the Qunari simply refer to people by those roles, it seems there would be no way to distinguish one Sten from another Sten. As (our DAO) Sten was his (military) role, not his "name". They might have different personalities, perhaps, but they are all referred to the same way, denying them any individuality.
Modifié par CybAnt1, 24 février 2014 - 04:58 .