Must be nice being able to have a family in the first place.
Yep, nothing better than watching your child die of starvation. Or maybe mauled by darkspawn. Or bandits. Or that noble thought your daugther was pretty.
Sure would be nice to be able to conjure some fireballs to defend themselves. Or to have some nice organization give you food without having to work 12 hours per day in the field; six of which to be able to pay your stipend.
But having a family makes it all good, right?
The peasants should count themselves lucky as to worry about the fate of their children,
The mages should be grateful they have the luxury of wondering just how free they are.
And if not that, the mages get to wonder if their kid is a mage, and probably hate themselves for the rest of their lives for passing on what they would surely deem by now, as a curse. As Malcolm said, "I wouldn't wish this magic on anyone".
As you can see, the Chantry has good reason to disencourage reproduction in the Circle.
For all the talk of starving and living in poverty, the peasants still get drunk.
Wynne brew beverages in the Circle.
"Some still get to hit up the brothel."
Given how we can discuss what to do with accidental babies, it's obvious the mages are sexually active.
"They still get their mobility and if not that, they believe that they do."
Very few people actually had any mobility in the middle ages. You lived and died wherever you were born.
"Mages are all too aware of their confines. Some of whom may never get to stand in the rain or kiss a girl; the most barebone of outside social interactions may not even be on the table for mages."
Given the fact that Anders claims "everyone was kissing everyone" in Ferelden and how Rhys remarks that mages were allowed to visit Val-Royeaux in the White Spire, it becomes evident that Kirkwall is the exception, not the rule.
And even in Kirkwall, no one batted an eyelash when a mage left the grounds to go meet up with a suitor(that woman Quentin killed). Why? Because she was considered to be trustworthy.
"It's also got to be just thrilling to live in very close proximity to people trained specifically to thwart their powers, hate, and fear them on principle. Always watching and waiting, some of them savoring the opportunity to murder the robes."
There is a rethoric warning against the dangers of magic; and that is very, VERY different being trained to hate mages on principle(would you rather the Chantry censor the dangers of magic?); but, ultimately, Templars are no different from any guardsmen stationed in Thedosian cities. Some will, no doubt, be corrupt jerks who will abuse their power but most of them are either people trying to make enough to survive or people who honestly believe in keeping order and protecting others.
And yes, this is very much true of the Templars. There are certain instances in DA2 where it is made abundantly clear that people like Alrik are a minority within the ranks. For instance, Ella sends you a letter if she is returned to the Circle in where she writes that no one misses Alrik and that most Templars don't want to fight mages, they just want things to return to normal. Bethany says as much in her own letters.
"While peasants can at least run from their tormentors and be successful."
Seriously?
"Mages are not afforded the same luxury; mages are relentlessy hounded (see Awakening Anders) no matter how well meaning and skilled they are (Bethany). They can hope and depend on the good will of their masters for their freedom, live life on the run, or die old and alone in a tower."
Mages are hounded because, if outside of the Circle, they are a threat to themselves and every one else around them. You acknowledge this because I remember you posting something about how the Circle trapped the mages in there with Uldred; but you'd rather expose everyone else to this threat so the mages can have a few freedoms. Never mind that these freedoms are provided, if also restricted, in the Circle.
And yes, Bethany is a good example. Given how good nature and her skill, Meredith spoke well of her. And what did this result in? In Bethany being allowed to go to a party without a Templar escort.
"I suppose if the only thing that you care about is material possessions and sustenance, then the circle is for you. But it seems that most people prefer their mobility, families and agency."
This why people have been known to commit crimes in order to be sent to confortable prisons?
Seriously, ask a thirld-worlder if he'd rather continue living in his home country or go to a prison in Sweden.
"My underlining point is that both groups have it pretty bad, simply in different ways. Might as well flip a coin to tell you the truth. Unless of course you're of unshakable belief that mages should always accept their conditions no matter bad things become, simply because of the rare chance of an Abomination or a Glorious Supreme Super Saiyan Goku Blood Magicking Magister Magistrate. In which case we will disagree."
And my underlining point is that given the fact mages can become weapons of mass destruction to the point a mage child like Connorn can destroy a city, killing dozens or hundreds of innocent, orphaning so many before sending their loved one to eat their faces; and the fact that the Circle provides quality of life in many ways superior to what the average Thedosian experiences, it wouldn't be so ungodly unreasonable to ask them to make some sacrifices to ensure the safety of the general population.
But apparently, that is just too bloody much to ask.