I'm not arguing the necessity of the Circle's. I'm only criticizing the way you are approaching the situation, lest we end up in an endless cycle of rebellions.
I'm discussing neither of those things. I am specifically addressing your incredulity at the idea of generosity as relating to the Circles.
When you are being generous to someone doesn't meant that they owe you anything. It was your action of being generous, that is your decision, your response-ability, and if you are not happy with results there is no one to blame but yourself.
Which is what I just said. Again, at no point have I said the Mages should be grateful. I have specifically only said that the Chantry has been generous.
Which is indisputable.
Every single Mage, regardless of ability, talent, power or intellect, grows up in an environment of luxury and education most of Thedas can barely dream of. They do not work. They do not go wanting for luxuries. They pursue studies that are both challenging and stimulating, leading to increased satisfaction from their efforts.
If, as tiny suggests, Mages were only given luxury and education because they are useful, then the Chantry could save itself staggering amounts of funds by only educating and training the very few who are actually useful. We are told in DA:O that very few Mages have the magical strength to cast battle spells. These are Mages that pass their Harrowing, mind you. That being the case, it is Chantry generosity that has them provide this environment for all, rather than cherry picking the very few useful ones and chucking the rest in some godforsaken prison where they get gruel twice a day and zero luxuries.
Which is what they would do if the anti-Chantry crowd were right. They Chantry has zero practical reasons for providing for the Mage community as well as it does. They could have saved themselves immeasurable money and heartache by cherry picking the elite Mages and treating only those Mages well and discarding the 'chaff' to Tranquil sweatshops and forgotten mass graves.
Yet. They. Do. Not.
So, yes. I contend that the Chantry is generous. And that is ALL I contend.