That's exactly what your post has me thinking!
I compared it with other lame "games" like god of war and dinasty warriors... that KIND of pseudo RPG is something i don't like.
Even if it was thought to be different, that doesn't mean it is bad, just that you don't like that style of game. Let me ask you this, though: in what way was DA:2 a psuedo RPG that DA:O was not?
Oh yes i'm a pathetic guy who is ignored by everyone, very funny perspective. Oh wait i can actually try to date an hetero character completely destroyed, a little 8 year old or so girl, a grumpy androginous elf, and a sleazzy girl that looks like my sister... sorry that perspective is really bad.
Except Hawke isn't ignored by everyone. In Act 1 he's specifically sought out by Varric and he's earned a reputation during the year of service. In Act 2 he's a noble and specifically asked by the Viscount to try to deal with the Quanari. In Act 3 he's the Champion of the city.
Romance-wise, your corresponding options in DA:O were a former assassin who was plenty "sleazy" as you put it in the past, a power hungry witch of the wilds whose motives you don't trust, and a crazy elf who tried you kill you. That perspective is pretty bad too. Nor, of course, is Merrill an 8 year girl (or even act like it) and chances are any human character will look like someone's sister.
Even Karnov's Revenge censored ending was better than ME3 ending, even if true this point is completely irrelevant
No, it's not, a solid ending makes people forgive a lot of other flaws...and conversely, a poor ending has people dislike the game more in general. Your statement is also irrelevant to HIS main point which was that the story wasn't cliche like DA:O, ME1, and ME3 (or many other games with the set-up of "Go to these 3-4 hub worlds/regions, gather information/forces, go beat bad guy."). I found it a welcome change as well.
Specific in what? it had no shades of gray like DAO, it was Mage equal GOOD and Templar equals BAD. There were no memorable characters like Bhelen, a hardened tyrant that wanted the best for it's own people, or Loghain, a true villian with brainpower and blinded by his own hate. Saying that DA2 had a more specific story is like saying that Disney Malefica's storyline (full of plotholes and excuses) was a masterpiece compared with Forrest Gump that is a boring story about a chosen one that achieved everything just because he was Forrest Gump (which was not)... Really what you said was a crime.
Specific to Hawke and Kirkwall and one city instead of being something more sweeping across an entire country. And it had plenty of shades of grey -- from Emeric to Thrask to Cullen on the good Templar side to the 304728934 Blood Mages running amok on the bad Mage side.
I didn't find Bhelen very memorable, Loghain yes. But I found Varric and Aveline more memorable than anything in DA:O.
You're sounding like Loghain yourself, really, blinded by unfounded hate for DA2. Calling someone else's post "a crime" when your own post is ignoring a ton of logic and nuance.