Right, because "women who game and play RPGs" are obviously totally different from "real women," despite the fact that we come from all walks of life and all backgrounds, just like men who game and play RPGs.
Seriously? This is like the argument I saw in another thread that my post regarding women's bodies in game was clearly female-biased and therefore entirely wrong, and that people would be less biased. Wait, people? So, women aren't people? I'm not a person? ... Gamer women aren't women? Really now? You have seriously crossed a line with me with that statement, I won't lie.
There is a double standard here, and I'm not the one who's endorsing it. Shirtless men aren't on par with barely-clothed women because you see them all the time, but this is especially true when their bodies are bulked up to the point of barely being human. Are there women who like it? Yes. But I repeat, if most women enjoyed that look, we'd be flocking to pro wrestling like flies on a carcass. I mean think about it--big muscles, sweaty, nearly naked men making close contact with each other... but most of us do not like that look, so pro wrestling fans are mostly males who like to see guys beat the snot out of each other. That applies to gaming women as much as it applies to any other women--because gaming women aren't some troglodyte subgroup, we encompass a large variety of women from a large variety of walks of life. Some like it, most don't. But the women, by contrast, in games, are designed to appeal to the most straight males in the audience possible.
Did I even once say I don't want the women to have an appealing look? No. Did I say that I wanted she-hulks for qunari? No. I don't even really whine that there isn't any great male eye candy, I just think if there isn't any eye candy for us ladies then I need to stop having the camera pan in-game to some woman's cleavage or butt and linger there while I decide what I want to say to her.
Part of the reason qunari males are portrayed shirtless in DA2 is likely because it's meant to put them in an "other" category. It's not meant to make women drool over them. It's meant to make you think "those guys aren't like us," and to show off how huge and bulky and muscular they are so that you recognize that they are powerful and dangerous. Not so women can drool over them and gently run their hands over those grotesquely oversized abs.
And with that, I'm done here. I don't enjoy being insulted, or told that I'm somehow different from all the other women in existence because I happen to play RPGs as a hobby when I'm not, you know, working a full time job.