I have been thinking a lot about companion romances and should they be player sexual. I understand that some people want them to be player sexual so that they can romance whoever they want. But I don't like the idea that romances are player sexual. There are several reasons for that. One reason is that there is a certain setting which is defined in the beginning of a game. I might be able to choose some things for example my race, gender, background or class. So that every time I choose differently, then there will be a different story. When I start playing there are characters that react to my character depending on who she is and what choices she is making. But the other characters are the same. They just react differently. They don't change, but I might have some impact on them but in the end they are always the same.
If every LI are player sexual I think it would be a little bit strange because should I think that everybody are bi? Or are all the men straight but women are all bi or lesbian? Why isn't there different sexualities? Why am I the only straight one there? I guess I'm just trying to say that I like that characters are different and not the same. There might be gay or bi or lesbian characters and that's just fine. Some characters' sexuality might be vague but if everybody's background is vague I think it would be too repetitive. I know that character is more than it's sexuality. But the reason why I say more is because sexuality is part of them. In some cases it's a bigger part and in some cases it smaller part. For example if a character is straight female. She is not bi and she might be interested in men. Of course this character is more than that. She could be a warrior or a scared little girl. But she is also straight female and why should we see her as bi because that is not who she is.
I might not like the idea that I can't romance everybody because of my gender. For example if there would be some man that is out of my reach because I'm a woman and I would really like to romance him. But I can live with that. I guess I'm just satisfied that I can play as a woman and have a romances at all. I guess I also want that not everything is ok to my companions. If one man is gay then he is gay and I can't romance him.
I can think of one way that player sexual romances can work and that is that you can choose it in the beginning of game just as you choose everything else for your inguisitor. That way you can choose would you like romances to be player sexual or not. It's like one state in the world.
I just hope there are romances for every sexuality so that everybody can have at least one romance. I guess it's better than nothing.