So does the knowledge that the particular romance you wanted isn't available to you. Granted, this is more of a mind thing, but still very relevant. Having to remember that you aren't getting what you wanted (while others do) is a very good way to ruin someone's mood.
The other romances are not relevant if they do not interest me. They might as well not be there as far as enjoyment goes.
What one values in a game is entirely subjective. I find the subject of playable races very trivial, for example A human-only PC wouldn't have bothered me in the slightest, yet other people value it incredibly highly. I also think there is a difference between something that isn't in the game at all and something that isn't in the game for you. Let's take your example of black hair versus white hair.
So I am someone who really really REALLY wants to play a Qunari with black hair. My entire character build revolves around the PC having black hair. I have spent weeks upon weeks imagening what my Inquisitor is gonna look like with their shiny black hair. But then the devs announce that only male Qunari will be able to have black hair, and I don't want to play male PCs or am unable to part from the image of a female Qunari Inquisitor with a delicious dark mane. Of COURSE I would be pissed that those people who play male characters will get the thing that I've been longing for, when there is no real reason for it and Bioware could have just as easily given us both the option. So I know that this thought will linger in my head the entire game. What I wanted for my Inquisitor cannot be achieved any longer and anything else seems inferior compared to that. I know I won't enjoy the game as much as I would have liked, so I don't buy it.
Seems like a perfectly reasonable scenario to me. I mean, the logic behind not buying something because you don't like a particular feature stays the same, regardless of what feature that is.
Let's be realistic here though: If someone has played the previous dragon age games they obviously enjoy the franchise, and while romance may be their favourite aspect they probably enjoy other parts of it as well.
If you refuse to buy games that don't let you play as a female or create your own character then you are limiting yourself to few games. If you only play games where there are romance options you are limiting yourself further. Insist that there must be same-gender romances and the numbers are fewer still, say that there must be an even number (or a choice) in same gender romances and you've got a few Bioware games. Maybe a handful of others that I'm not aware of as well. That's it.
That's a tiny number. If you then say you'll only buy a game if there is a romance option you like the look of you could very well have 0 games in existence that meet your criteria. This person probably plays games with no romance at all, so why are they suddenly so particular about Bioware games? Do they really find so little enjoyment in the rest of the game that if there isn't that 10 minute scene with an LI they like it's a no deal?
And that's assuming there are no romances at all. They might have really enjoyed one of the other romances available, perhaps even more than the one they originally wanted. But they will never get to experience it because they rejected the game before they had the chance to meet that companion. And at this stage it feels less like choosing games and more like a virtual dating site: Looking at images and brief descriptions of potential romance candidates and rejecting the entire game if none meet the persons standards. If it reaches this stage things have become a bit sad.
Juhani in Star Wars: Knights of the Old Republic was lesbian, so Bioware never having a homosexual companion is not true.
That's true, though It was very glossed over (I don't remember ever realizing she was playing as a male character, though I was very young at the time so I don't remember much about the game at all).
That game is really old though, we haven't seen any recently.
Even?
2/2/2 is 2 straight choices, 2 gay choices and 4 choices for the bisexual PC.
A straight PC will have the choice between the straight option and the bisexual one of the opposite gender.
A gay PC will have the choice between the gay option and the bisexual one of the same gender.
A bisexual PC will have the choice between one straight option, one gay option and both bisexual options.
If you ignore the bisexual options you have even less choices.
The number of choices is exactly the same with 4 bisexual/playersexual LI by the way.
A straight PC will be able to choose among the 2 LI of the opposite gender.
A gay PC will be able to choose among the 2 LI of the same gender.
The bisexual PC will be able to choose among all 4 LI.
I don't get the point of what your saying. Obviously the bisexual PC will always have more options, nothing can change that.
6 is the smallest number of LI's you can have while representing all sexualities in the romances and giving straight and gay PC's the same number of options. I don't see how you can argue against that.