As for Cassandra's jumping to conclusions this is also in DA2 where she assumes Hawke was responsible for the bomb and trying to subvert the Chantry (even if he/she sided with the templars and became vicount smh). Varric calls Cassandra out on her jumping to conclusions several times over the course of DA2.
My interpretation is that Cassandra was utilizing some standard interrogation techniques - making accusations - to get Varric to spill the truth. I'm not convinced that we were shown what Cassandra herself actually thought about any of it.
I'm trying to understand.
Again, not trying to be rude..but... but... Thedas.. Dragon Age itself.. is ****** awesome. How could someone not already be drawn in? 
DA:O drew me in, DA2 pushed me out. The player's connection to the world is via the PC, and if that character is not relatable, it's pretty hard to be drawn into it.
The Warden's motives, personality, and behaviors were, to a large extent, orchestrated by me. Hawke's personality and behaviors were all designed and pre-programmed by the developers. It took me several attempts to get to know the character well enough to make the sort of connection with her that could get me invested in her world - and even then, I was always put off by her walk / run animation. It is not a natural gait, but a conscious effort to elicit sexual attention - a mating call, so to speak - and for the character to do that consistently in that context made no sense whatsoever to me.
Just to elaborate on what I mean a little bit.
I think the human noble and Dalish origins work better with a female, for example. Even despite the marketing. I can't help but think they were written more with females in mind. Fergus is the gruff male sibling going out to battle, while you're "pup" who is being protected a bit.
I'm not quite sure I understand why that is more applicable to a female. Any character who is being actively recruited by the Grey Wardens shouldn't require protection.
And the connection is much better with Alistair later on, imo. As far as I'm concerned, he sucks as a male "bro" type. I think they failed there. He's no Garrus or Varric. But he is a good romance option.
During the course of my first playthrough, I learned not to talk to Alistair past a certain approval level, or I would end up with a rose in my inventory and Wynne making comments about my supposed romance with him. I would suggest that he also sucks as a "bro" type to female wardens uninterested in his romance.
I always play Bioware games because I know they are female friendly, but the marketing has always been a sore point for me. It does affect how I think the company views me as a consumer. It does make me feel like an afterthought when the male version is regularly displayed and made the "face" of their games while the female one is more of a footnote.
So far, their showing at E3 is good. It feels like we're being listened to an acknowledged. It feels like we're considered part of their community now. I hope they keep this up, and actually update the official site now.
Some of the exposure works well on both sides of the aisle. The increased female presence invites female gamers while the wiggly butt shots of Sera and Vivienne also draw straight men.