I think guys have an advantage of already having a wide range of body types in games. There's also the idea that covered doesn't convey too much information about one's build.
I do think there's an overabundance of scruffy white dude (if you look at me right now, though, I am totally scruffy white dude haha) among player characters, so I think there's still issues for men.
I know there's a bit of a bias against the "scruffy white dude" stereotype in this thread, but I don't mind them. I like scruffy white dudes. Some of my best friends are scruffy white dues. A scruffy white dude sired me. And I married a scruffy white dude, after all. 
But yes, I do get the point you're making and it's a good point. I think I have a concept that all/most men like the "muscular, macho man" build and because all/most men aspire to that, to be the Strong Protector/Provider archetype... but, in reality, I'm betting I'm being horrifically stereotypical and that this isn't the case at all.
Well, I definitely can't speak for all women and I definitely can't speak for those more in tune with or who like to be "girly". I am an eternal tomboy in every possible way. I've always been that way and I never "outgrew" it. As a child, my mother would try to do cutesy things to my hair with accessories, and I would literally rip them out (hair and all) moments later. Despise dresses and skirts. Never wanted to play with dolls, much preferred my plastic dinosaurs and cars and fighter planes. Whenever I'd play pretend, I never wanted to be a princess or a ballerina or anything of that nature - I truly, honestly always wanted to be (and still, honestly, actually WANT to be) the stereotypical "knight in shining armor". I wanted to be in full plate armor with a sword and shield astride a noble steed and riding forth into battle to save the terrified village from the horrible monster/evil wizard/insert-scary-thing-here.
So, with all that in mind, can anyone here honestly see a mentality of my type wanting to strut down a catwalk? Ever? Even remotely/a little bit?
If you ask me what my ideal female character is, I think it's easiest described by pointing to Aveline. I LOVE her. I related to her SO MUCH on so many levels. To be honest, Aveline was me for most of my life. I think of myself as a little more laid back now on some subjects than she is, a bit less "stick up the butt" as some might describe. But I adored how her character was handled, from demeanor to looks to walk to armor. THAT'S how I want my PC to be. A strong woman in armor that doesn't scream "look, I have boobies" and who walks with a determined purpose of saving the world first, not worried about necessarily swaying those hips to attract a mate.
That's what I want. But I am at one extreme. I fully acknowledge that many women WANT some femininity to their characters. They don't necessarily want to be tomboys. And that should be respected, too.
I remember being just fine with the female PCs in DAO. They seemed to walk and run fine to me. I do know Hawke makes me laugh a little. There is such an exaggerated sashay in that walk... my God, I would have to concentrate so hard and make a conscious effort to ever walk like that, and I would feel absolutely ridiculous doing so because that is just SO not me. At all. Even if you squint really hard and turn your head sideways. Just nope nope nope. I felt very connected to all of my Wardens, probably because they were more neutral (and also because their origins were so personalized). Hawke... I like Hawke and I like DA2. But Hawke never felt like "mine". Hawke was someone I was navigating. But my Wardens, they were MINE. All of them. I felt more control over them, even though they probably all had the same animations. Hawke was somebody else... someone I was okay with and maybe we'd be friends... but Hawke never connected me to the characters and world like my Wardens did. And a lot of it I think is because Hawke's mannerisms were so far swung to the feminine side that my tomboy self felt a serious disconnect.
My two cents, for what they are worth. 