It doesn't 'bother' me, I just think it's wrong. It goes very heavily against how I've seen people act. And it's easy to imagine how it could be skewed.
If it doesn't bother you, then why would you come in and try to correct people. I'm skeptical that it's simply in the name of "making sure people have factual data" and not in any way related to what inaccurate data may lead people to be conclude.
Further, since you're implying that we're victims of confirmation bias, I have to ask what your justification is in thinking that the numbers are wrong beyond your own personal perceptions and that you may be rejecting the information on a confirmation bias of your own.
I have heard numbers that AAA console games tend to have a 2:1 ratio. Is that number more palatable to your liking?
To be blunt, to me it seems like you're shifting the goalposts about what you're arguing about.
It seemed very much like you have reservations with the idea that women should be more represented:
"Just the arguments that women should be represented more and whatnot."
But now you're saying:
"First of all, I never said asking for more women is a bad thing. Only that care needs to be taken so that the female characters are acknowledged and respected as legitimate characters."
So you seem to be contradicting yourself. Please clarify so I can understand what you're trying argue.
Second, please elaborate on what you mean by "acknowledged and respected as legitimate characters." Because I'm of the impressoin that you seem to feel that that the women here don't understand what it takes to have an appropriate female character in a game. So please, elaborate.