Sometimes, when a thread has a ton of pages (like this one), I'll click on just the responses from Bioware so I can get a sense of the discussion. I've greatly enjoyed reading through all of Allen's answers, and I find the discussion fascinating. I realize that I'm bringing up a post that is from almost a month ago, but I saw Allen quote this and it made me go down a line of thought I'd never explored before, so I hope nobody minds if I bring it back.
Right so as per Allan's request, let's bring it back to the lady Inquisitor! 
Here's something I'm curious about. For women who will roll a lady Inquisitor, will you try to make her look as similar to you as possible, or the complete opposite? I think oddly when I was younger I was more keen on making my characters as different as can be... pink hair, tattoos, the works (I'm referring to DAO's Warden... that was a while back, now!). But now I'm more interesting in creating a character who resembles me more. I wonder if it's an age thing. Not sure!
And for the guys... When you play the opposite gender, do you try to make her look as attractive as you can, or like a female version of yourself, etc etc? 
For context, I'm a male gamer who plays almost exclusively female characters in any game I'm given the option. This isn't to say I don't also enjoy playing male characters, but I find myself identifying much more closely with a female protagonist than a male one. More specifically, I identify with a lesbian female more than any other type of character. Sometimes this is to a degree that I will miss out on a lot of content that I would have otherwise enjoyed because, even when playing a male character, I wish I was playing a female character. This is most true in the Mass Effect games, where I have never once successfully romanced Ashley (by far my favorite companion), because I cannot get through that game with a Male Shepard. It was also a big issue for me with Mass Effect 2, because I really liked Miranda, and to a greater degree Jack, but when I start the game with a Male Shepard I always end up stopping and going back, because I would much prefer playing as a FemShep. I think Jennifer Hale's VO work has something to do with it, but it's a factor in nearly every RPG I play.
Anyway, the question above sort of struck me as particularly interesting in regards to people like me, who cross-play RPGs, and, as I said before, is something that I have never thought about before.
When I play DO play a male character, either by choice or because I'm forced to, almost all of the time I play whatever the default character model is. When I do make changes, it's almost always changing the hair color to match mine (I have really dark red, almost copper colored, hair). Other than that, I would say 99% of the time, I never change anything else. Mostly I just want to get it out of the way and get to the game.
But I will spend hours getting a female character model "right". I realize now that I have an idealized version of what I would want a female version of myself to look like. Same color hair as me, usually long; tall; athletic; blue eyes; deep, almost sultry voice. Other things depend on the Genre. In fantasy games I tend to want to play a woman who is funny, sarcastic, often caustic, and, at least on my first playthrough, almost always a rogueish character. But who has a softer, much more flirty side when it comes to social interactions. If I'm allowed to chose casual clothing they tend to be dresses or more lose fitting lounge wear, silk preferred, something where I can use my femininity as a weapon if needed. For Sci-Fi games I tend to play more severe, non-nonsense women with an iron will and who knows exactly what she wants and is not afraid to take it, and can often be straight up mean or have something of a sadistic side. I almost always play the solder type the first time through, and if given the option of casual clothing it's normally tighter, leather pants or a tight fitting leather jacket, and of the kind where I can use my sexuality as a weapon.