You know, I'm not the most attractive girl in real life. I'm not fugly, but not the most attractive either. I'm also bi.
So while I understand the whole push to not be treated as and shown off as sex objects and desire for realistic armor. To a degree I think it's starting to be pushed a little too far in some cases. While I don't see a need for a chainmail bikini, I admit to liking attractive options. To being able to play a bit of dress up with my character. Also while, no being stunningly beautiful is not realistic, I'd rather my avatar be beautiful, if for no other reason than for my escape to really be an escape, and for a bit of eye candy. I did say I was bi after all.
I know this will sound rediculous, but little bothers me more than when it feels like my character is mannish and wearing the ugliest outfit in the party. I mean last thing I want when playing my avatar is to feel jealous of my companions or their ability to actually have their own style. Take Dragon Age 2 for example. Everybody in the party got to have their own unique look, sometimes sexy if it suited them, realism be damned.
Meanwhile I don't think there was a single outfit I actually found attractive on my Hawke, and in 90% of them, if not for my feminine hairstyle, and exaggerated feminine walk, any sense of femininity was completely hidden and covered by the overly conservative outfit I was wearing.
Is bad enough we've lost our breasts, growing smaller and smaller til eventually we'll end up looking like little girls or boys, we have clothes that further act to hide that, yes we are female.
I don't mind the Joan of Ark masculine plate as an OPTION, but damnit I'm so sick of it being forced on me because someone might be offended. Some of us would rather be attractive and play a bit of dress up with our avatars.
So instead of being offended and demanding must be ulraconservative, how about a bit of compromise. The game actually can pander to both of us without going too far either way. Give us a C cup, enough that's attractive but not rediculously large, and outfits that range between a bit showy and attractive and ultraconservative, and make sure there are viable versions of both at all levels of power, so neither of us feels forced into the others outfit.
I want to be able to enjoy immersing myself in my avatar, and not feel like the ugliest female in the party.