Ultimately I agree with you
I am transgender. In game I can be female and no one questions it, there is no chance of anyone finding out and deciding I'm not female because I was born with male parts, in game I am as female as anyone else. The last thing I want is to RP as transgender, because frankly being transgender is a label forced on me and used by others to say I'm technically not female. I don't really comprehend wanting to play at being in this awkward only sometimes accepted as my self state of being, when I can rp what it's like to not have it considered questionable.
And fine I take it back. I still think it's an unhealthy way of living though. As long as the person is honest about their history, their intentions and takes precautions I have no problem with it however. Is why I keep saying she's better than most of the "players" I've known, who will lie straight up, and manipulate their way into a girls pants, do everything they can to not use protection, and never get checked out.
Thanx
It may seem unhealthy , but again . It is a matter of choice . If you want to put a chain and chastie someone , chastie them on them being dishonest and not telling the truth like for exemple 'Sleeping around and not taking any precaution' . Do not condamn the act as such , but the peoples lying and being dishonest . Putting a massive lock on such a thing , well...it is neither fair or right . Because you will condamn peoples who are open and honest about it and who do take precaution .
One thing I love about Bela , is her honesty and the whole 'Let peoples lives' . Yes she can be selfish (I do not overlook her flaws) , but I have more respect for peoples who don't beat around the bush , or even try to hide or twist their words . Those who do twist their words , mince words , lie ........I have no respect for . At all .
Well , I have no idea who would someone play as a transgender to begin with
But if they want to , so be it . If you can't or won't , maybe they do .
The truth is , games are advancing in the Orientation/ethnie mix at a very slow pace . Hopefully , DAI will open doors . Cose it certainly need it .