When did this become a discussion based on consoles only? As the games we're talking about are on PC too I would think PC stats would also count. I would also point out that anyone who picked up ME3 after the data was collected, who held off on the endings when the debacle happened or who chooses not to have their data collected (like me) will not be represented in those statistics being quoted either. And interpreting statistics is a science in and of itself! 
Having said that I'm not sure the data from ME3 is overly relevant to the DA franchise since David Gaider in his talk and Allan Schumacher earlier in this thread mentioned that the number of women they meet playing or talking about the DA franchise is a larger percentage than for ME. Given that is the case why not try to broaden the appeal even further among the people (women and men interested in female protagonists) with some marketing aimed at them? There was a trailer floating around for DA:O with Duncan doing the voice over where he specifically explains you can play any race or gender and the MC is shown in the entry to Ostegar as various combos male human, female dwarf, male dwarf female elf etc that made that point reasonably well I thought and did not seem in the least unfocused.
As said above we're not asking for the whole, most or even half the marketing budget to be spent on advertising to female and male players interested in a female protag, we're just asking for a small share of it to acknowledge us and invite us and the ladies and gents who don't follow forums to play the game too. And while we're at it yes I agree with those who suggest more inclusiveness for LGBT and other minority content as well.
Also not sure why men would have a problem seeing a trailer and a little art aimed at female players. Isn't that underestimating them as much as us? Just a random thought.
Note: This thread is moving so fast atm.