....looks like I'm never going to Japan then.
I don't know if it's different for a tourist. She worked in the schools on one of those JET programs, thus was there longer and in more rural areas than Tokyo or the other major cities.
Ooh. I just wanna jump in and say that when I lived in Korea (yes it's not Japan but it's geographically very close and still Asia), I encountered buckets and buckets of racism. Less toward white people than black, but basically god help you if you weren't Korean yourself. And don't even mention being anything other than straight unless you want to live in hell. One of my acquaintances there (a Korean himself) nearly got fired from his job because he wouldn't shave his stubble. It wasn't a beard, it was just stubble. And you know why? Because the male higher ups said that he was trying to look superior to them via facial hair.
Not that a tourist or someone living there for a short time would notice these things, though. But the point is that there are a lot of messed up societies in this world. BUT, that shouldn't excuse any shortcomings of our own societies.
Just because we're more open minded or whatever than somewhere else doesn't mean we should stop trying. Only pointing this out because sometimes people use the crappiness of other countries to excuse the state of their own.
Hmm...ever here of the Bic for her pens? Pens for women b/c our wrists are so dainty we were idk... fracturing our wrists trying to write thank you cards?
Why would a product being marketed as manly offend a dude if they want to be 'traditionally' masculine. However, if say, you're someone who doesn't give a rats ass about off roading and...whatever else Dr. Pepper 10 adds were about but you love Dr. Pepper, then you're probably scratching your head and feeling a bit weirded out and alienated.
And why do I as a woman need a different pen made 'just for me' (that 'coincidentally' happens to be purple) when the blue one I was using was just fine? Its more creepy then offensive to me...and overall its just gross. Although, admittedly, the Amazon product reviews written in rebellion of the product make it almost worth it 
My favorite is a commercial that tries to sell soap for men by claiming that it makes them masculine and not to worry, it's not girly. Like... If I were a man, I'd be affronted. Does society really think men won't wash unless it makes them feel masculine?
The argument wasn't that there was a problem attracting a female audience to these shows but that there are not women included in the media in the numbers that they should be because men are seen as default and men are taught that anything feminine or female is bad. It is a problem when a casual audience has trouble even finding a scene wherein two women discuss something other than a man with one another (the basis of the Bechdel test). It is a problem when there are not visibly women in the media in general, and when writers are told they cannot include women because women don't sell (even when they do--Hunger Games, anyone?).
Hmm. Yeah and it's also a problem when women don't interact with other women in these TV shows or movies and are only there to interact with men. Black Widow in the Avengers/Capt America movies and basically ALL the women in Sherlock, just to name a couple examples from the most recent stuff I've watched.