I feel I should make a new post to just let people know that what I said wasn't written to sound nasty. After discussing this with people in messages I realise that what I said didn't come out the way I had originally intended it to be. I am sorry if it hurt anyone and I didn't meant to be dismissive of women and what they face. I only meant that I wanted to broaden the appeal of marketing and representation of minorities to include more than just women, but also LBGT and people of various races and ethnicities.
Now that we've all calmed down and you've clarified your meaning, I'm right there with you. I've never wanted to just switch out straight white male protag 100% of the time for straight white female protag 100% of the time. I want to see more diversity on all fronts in these games.
The question is are you guys being serious.
How do you know the warden seen in the trailers ISN'T gay? There's absolutely nothing to support that? Does he kiss anyone? Most gay people I know would be more offended by a stereotypical camp depiction of them than a lack of overt confirmation.
Yeah, there is absolutely no reason why the Inquisidude we have seen so far can't be gay, or bi, or asexual. He is a completely blank slate as far as sexuality goes. Of course, the majority of people will assume he's heterosexual unless proven otherwise, but that's just how that goes.
However, I don't think that applies to how DA marketing has previously shown protags. The Origins cover shows the silhouette of an ambiguous male Warden with Morrigan's face hovering behind him. With no context at all, I would assume that you play as a male and that the seductive-looking woman behind him is either the villain or the love interest. And in DA2, that trailer where mage dude Hawke fights the arishok shows him in a romance with Isabella.
Sexuality is a harder thing to work into the marketing than race or gender, for sure. Because, like you say, you can't see somebody's orientation on their face. It has to be acted out in some way. But if there are ways to portray heterosexuality in the marketing, then there are definitely ways to portray other kinds of romance too.
It's like someone decided that the female of any hypothetical species has to be "fuckable" (which I believe are the exact words james cameron used about Avatar)
This is why I was so looking forward to female qunari. Just once, I want to know what it feels like to play a truly big, powerful-looking woman. I guess I won't get that, after all. I should just go back to taking Shale everywhere in Origins and play her every chance I get.