Here's my question, for those who want to think about this from a design perspective. I'm going to assume things at this point that are not known about DAI to do this.
You are on the "romance design team". There's only enough budget to VA 4 romances out of 9 characters.
You want everybody to have 2 options for LI, and you want this regardless of any choices in the CC, including gender, and you don't want players who decide their characters are gay (or bi) (since you don't actually, per se, "set" their orientation in the CC) to be treated anymore unfairly than anyone else ... how do you do this? Why, you wind up exactly with DA2's system.
Now the devs are saying they are all bisexual, players are saying they are all 'playersexual', some other fans saying a bit of both, but whatever: in the end, if you have the above criteria and constraints in mind, how do you achieve fairness? (Also, if fairness means you give one player a choice, you give all players a choice.)
I'll repeat my position on this: from someone who likes characters, indeed, to show that they have a kind of independence of agency from the player/PC, sure, yes I'd love them to be more selective about who they romance. Of course that has more verisimilitude to real life. But selective in lots of ways! Like I said earlier: maybe even selective about your background, your appearance, or your race. Not just your gender.
If I suddenly had a magical budget to have 20 voiced romance able characters, damn straight, this is how I would do it. That way even with lots of selectivity by the "romancees," everybody still gets a shot at 1, and maybe even a choice of 2, regardless of what they pick in the CC.
I repeat that the DA2 solution everybody hates (and it's odd to see me standing up for a game, I normally complain about in other areas) ... is the optimal one, if you have player-fairness as a criterion. Given the constraints they were working with.
I really hope it's 6 LIs this time around and the 2/2/2 formula that seems to be the Golden Middle for (almost) everybody here wants, I'm worried it won't be.