Never really been a big fan of Sebastian- he's pretty, and he has a Bee-u-ti-ful voice, but he kinda annoyed me with his wishy-washiness. Historically, imo, the best leaders were wise and willing to listen to council, yes, but they were ultimately decisive and cool-headed in high pressure situations. Sebastian didn't just need council, he actively needed Hawke to talk him into seizing his throne, which would be fine, except that he's the one who stated his intentions to reclaim Starkhaven in a show of pique and agression after his family was killed. In the end, it takes the Chantry blowing and Hawke's refusal to pass judgment on the perpetrator for him to finally make a snap decision to reclaim Starkhaven. The only time he seems to be decisive is when he's pissed- not so good with pressure or decision making then. Not that I blame him for the reaction, I just think his behavior is indicative of a ruler who'd be slow to make needful changes while he dithers over semantics and Chantry approval, and prone to mistakes when he actually does make up his mind about something, since he seems to only do so while agitated. However, considering that Goran Vael (the current Starkhaven Prince) is supposed to be a moron and a puppet (though if not a puppet for the Harrimans any longer, I have no idea who might be pulling the strings) Sebastian might ultimately be the best choice for the people of Starkhaven.
This was a situation similar to the one in Fereldan after DAO, I think. Anora ruling alone was never a good option to me b/c for all that they tell us she was a good queen, she was clearly out of her depth when it came to exerting her authority over the Landsmeet and her own father (I mean, come on, did she even wait a day before running to daddy and making him her regent?). She needed a charismatic king beside her so that she could do all the administration and logistical ruling, while the popular co-monarch served to keep the Landsmeet and populace in check- which might have been why she appointed Loghain as regent; but if so, she clearly wasn't shrewd enough to see how such an act would diminish her power. On the other hand we had Alistair, who, even if he was hardened, didn't know the first thing about ruling and was a prime target to be Emon's puppet (if not the warden's). Not to mention, as an unacknowledged bastard, there are so many reasons for the nobles of the landsmeet to resist him for the rest of ever and make a bunch of rebellious trouble. However, of the two bad choices, I always felt that a hardened Alistair was the less bad choice for Fereldan overall, especially if he ruled with a politics-savvy Cousland to lend him a little more legitimacy and political clout. The Alistair/Anora union was certainly a good political choice on the surface, but I always worried about the human elements coming to play there. Alistair beyond hated Anora's father, and if Loghain didn't die, the wound would fester, and the pus would spread over the relationship, which could cause some ugly backlash in the kinging department.
An any case, though I didn't much care for Sebastian, I wouldn't be particularly adverse to seeing him in DAI; at the very least, it would be nice for his fans. Also, I LOVED how Isabela would troll him when he tried to get all preachy! Favorite party banter for Sebastian:
- Sebastian: I used to be like you, you know.
- Isabela: You used to be a woman?
- Sebastian: No!
- Isabela: That explains a lot.
- Sebastian: My family put me in the Chantry because I was giving them a bad name.
- Sebastian: It was the best thing that ever happened to me. I found peace. I found a purpose.
- Sebastian: Before I came here, I used to be out to all hours, drinking and whoring. I didn't believe in anything except my own pleasure.
- Isabela: Why couldn't I have met you then?