Curious, exactly why do some of you dislike elves so much? Serious question, no ulterior motives or flamebaiting.
Some dislike elves. For most I imagine it is carrying over their impressions of them from the game into these discussions.
The same reason any of us dislike other groups in the games. City Elves and Dalish may be a minority, but it isn't like they are perfect. They aren't Elrond and they don't live in Rivendell. The Dalish have an antagonistic point of view and are extremely standoffish, but that is a character trait that fits with their culture and makes them real. The city Elves while tragic also have the annoying poor me and my lot in life victim aspect. It rubs some the wrong way just as the Orlesians or Chantry or Tevinters or Qunari or Dwarves rub people the wrong way.
The issue is actually more about the fact that people tend to pick a group as their favored perfect race and defend it blindly while attacking others.
For some it is the sad tale of the fall of the elves, for others it is the expansionist humans, for others it is the decline of the socially stratified dwarvish society, and others again think Tevinter or the Qunari offer that perfect society.
In the end we all have warts, its whether we choose to acknowledge the warts of our chosen favorites or not that leads to thinking people dislike a group.
And again, some of us-TKS, Xil, MWZ, Lob etc just have groups that we can't stand that are usually, but not always built upon what we think of that group through the lens of our favored group.
If I had to guess:
TKS- is pro Templar to the detrement of all else- including the chantry.
Xil-is a composite elf and mage, though I think if for some reason she had to choose between elves and mages she would let the elves burn.
MWZ-is a pro human who I think just like tweaking lobs ears on the elvish dislike.
Lob-Very pro elf and while he does take a pro mage stance in that discussion, I believe he is the reverse of Xil.
Sorry if I am wrong on any of these suppositions my friends, just thought it might be a better way to illustrate my point in answering EOL's question.