I'd be perfectly fine with a romance that had no sex in it I just mainly would like at least a kiss scene and for it to be a romance unlike what they tried with Sebastian's chaste romance. It would be interesting to see a romance approached from that angle though if done right. I'm sure they could still have it feel like a romance even without sex as opposed to Sebastian's romance which felt like an add on after thought to me that wasn't very well implemented but that's just my opinion.
That picture...its....its perfect! 
Yeah ... I rivalmanced Sebastian and sided with the Templars and strongly felt a kiss was warranted in the end just before the fight against Orsino. I guess his chaste marriage does fit the bill I described ... but it isn't exactly what I meant, and I'm glad you could see that. It felt like a weird cop-out. I didn't need a fade to black scene, but Seb didn't have to be so ... devout.
Holy expletive! I just found the my new favorite qunari fanart of all time:
RinaCane on deviantartGoing to reconsider no horns...