Hi guys! This is actually my first post here, been lurking for years, and now finally posting! I wanted to talk/ask about the Iron Bull romance, to clear up some confusion I might be having. I've read the last page and I guess I have some questions for those who have finished the Bull romance. As a pre-cursor, there are going to be spoilers in this post, but I'm not sure how to do the spoiler box thing, so if you haven't been through this romance you have been warned!
So, real quick, as a gay man, this has been my favorite romance I've ever delved into in a Bioware game so far (to be fair, I never tried to romance Kaidan in ME3 because I only played it once with a female character, and I have yet to romance Dorian, saving that for the second playthrough!) and I love the Iron Bull as a character and lover for my Inquisitor (whom is also a Qunari wootwoot)! Despite that, though, I feel a bit disappointed. Was that really all there was to it? If felt so short, ill-paced, and abrupt... I think there were three major (romantic) scenes between the two of you, the first where he finally drops the bomb that he's gotten your hints of flirtations, the sex scene where Cullen, Josephine, and Cassandra walk in, and then if I'm not mistaken, the scene where you two have sex again, and talk about it a bit, and he, atleast in my playthrough, says something along the lines of "Katoh" when you express the fear of death, and he exclaims you'll make it out together, alive.
Now, don't get me wrong, as I said before, I loved this romance and Bull and he's surprisingly sweet but wild at the same time and whatnot. But... is that really the last scene you get together? I've just finished the Orlesian Ball main quest, as well as the Wardens one, but have yet to go on with Morrigan and the Eluvian, so there is still plenty more to go through I've heard, but whenever I try to talk to Bull, it's just "Goodbye" or "Kiss Him", and that's it... I received the achievement to the romance during the aforementioned scene, but at the time, I didn't think that was the end. I thought that was just a "no going back now" sort of thing, or something. I've also done plenty of quests for the Chargers, as that unlocked more dialogue for Bull earlier in the romance I think.
So, I guess my question is, is that it? To those who have beat the game or made it farther than me, do I have anything else more to look forward to with this relationship? If so, please don't spoil the details for me! If not... well, I'd have to say I'm a little let down. Maybe my expectations were too high, but I assumed this was something that would carry through the entire main quest and whatnot. So if anyone could give me some further insight, that'd be great, thanks!