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[Sui Causa]

Yeah I was here the whole time.

 

I remember being all vader NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO when the year delay happened. That was a fun thread.

 

I was so eager to play I used a vpn XD I first romanced Cullen then switched genders so I could resist...then Bull hit and I was lost. The BDSM was intersting but mostly I was glad he wasn't a liar and his romance didn't have a segment where I just stopped and went "why on earth would Is stay with you?" and that was such a relief.

Yeaaah, I'm pretty entrenched in the lifestyle IRL. It's pretty amazing when my interests collide, and I can have bdsm sexy manly men and video games at the same time! It pulled me out of like, a two year writing slump where I could barely write anything. Now it's like, I can't frickin' stop. It's pretty amazing and thank you Bioware for making this happen, even if all I'm writing is nothing but filthy Iron Bull porn. ♥ It's still something.

[Hellion Rex]

Yeah, BDSM has always been a bit of a turn on for me IRL, but the people I've encountered who...practice (?) it kinda were dicks to their subs, so that was unfortunate.

[Ryzaki]

Yeaaah, I'm pretty entrenched in the lifestyle IRL. It's pretty amazing when my interests collide, and I can have bdsm sexy manly men and video games at the same time! It pulled me out of like, a two year writing slump where I could barely write anything. Now it's like, I can't frickin' stop. It's pretty amazing and thank you Bioware for making this happen, even if all I'm writing is nothing but filthy Iron Bull porn. ♥ It's still something.

 

 

I'm glad for you too and hey it's not just porn. It's porn with plot

 

Yeah, BDSM has always been a bit of a turn on for me IRL, but the people I've encountered who...practice (?) it kinda were dicks to their subs, so that was unfortunate.

 

 

Douchebags suck

 

But yeah the BDSM never bothered me (not seriously anyway at most I was a bit annoyed it wasn't more of a switch thing but after playing the game I can see why) ...but I play very questionable games so I can't judge.

[Sui Causa]

Yeah, BDSM has always been a bit of a turn on for me IRL, but the people I've encountered who...practice (?) it kinda were dicks to their subs, so that was unfortunate.

That really does suck. My husband is my dom, has been so since before we were married. (Horray Canada, gay marriage!) I was not part of the lifestyle at all before I met him, but I experimented with him more out of curiosity than anything after getting to know him a bit.

 

Oh god did I take to it. xD It helps that he is an absolutely excellent top. ♥ We're not like, a 24/7 master slave thing or anything like that, I work a normal job with normal friends and all that stuff. I just enjoy my private time with him a little differently than most couples would? I've been to clubs, we have friends into the scene, I've seen good doms and bad doms and good subs and crappy subs. But our circle is very private, so douchebags tend to build up a reputation rapidly and get shut out, whether they top or bottom. The problem is always finding a group that's established like that. :S

[Ryzaki]

That really does suck. My husband is my dom, has been so since before we were married. (Horray Canada, gay marriage!) I was not part of the lifestyle at all before I met him, but I experimented with him more out of curiosity than anything after getting to know him a bit.

 

Oh god did I take to it. xD It helps that he is an absolutely excellent top. ♥ We're not like, a 24/7 master slave thing or anything like that, I work a normal job with normal friends and all that stuff. I just enjoy my private time with him a little differently than most couples would? I've been to clubs, we have friends into the scene, I've seen good doms and bad doms and good subs and crappy subs. But our circle is very private, so douchebags tend to build up a reputation rapidly and get shut out, whether they top or bottom. The problem is always finding a group that's established like that. :S

 

What would a crappy sub be? I mean I can figure what a bad dom is not so much sub. (not to pry or anything )

[Hellion Rex]

That really does suck. My husband is my dom, has been so since before we were married. (Horray Canada, gay marriage!) I was not part of the lifestyle at all before I met him, but I experimented with him more out of curiosity than anything after getting to know him a bit.

 

Oh god did I take to it. xD It helps that he is an absolutely excellent top. ♥ We're not like, a 24/7 master slave thing or anything like that, I work a normal job with normal friends and all that stuff. I just enjoy my private time with him a little differently than most couples would? I've been to clubs, we have friends into the scene, I've seen good doms and bad doms and good subs and crappy subs. But our circle is very private, so douchebags tend to build up a reputation rapidly and get shut out, whether they top or bottom. The problem is always finding a group that's established like that. :S

Dumb question, but how old are you?

 

For some odd reason, I had always pictured you closer to my age, but since you're married, I'm guessing you're a bit older lol.

[Sui Causa]

Dumb question, but how old are you?

 

For some odd reason, I had always pictured you closer to my age, but since you're married, I'm guessing you're a bit older lol.

I'm 26. >.> I met my husband when I was 19, he's 10 years older than me.

 

What would a crappy sub be? I mean I can figure what a bad dom is not so much sub. (not to pry or anything )

Ahah. I guess it's more just my personal preference. I just know what I don't like seeing in other subs, especially if I happen to know the dom. But I guess other doms are into it so it's probably less of a bad sub thing and more of just a...things I don't like thing? xD Being disrespectful, manipulative, lazy. People who are there because they think being a sub means you get to flop down and have someone else figure out what you want or need and do all the work without contributing to the process themselves. Ones who are constantly testing their doms, baiting them into doing things they didn't want to do to sabotage a scene, etc. Idunno. It's just stuff I see happen sometimes that makes me mad. >.>

 

Like, for instance, taking advantage of the great services offered by a certain sexy qunari, and then denying him the basic respect of acknowledging they're in a relationship? I'm willing to give Dorian some leeway and a chance to prove himself, but if I saw someone do that to someone I knew IRL, I'd go pretty catty-mode on them in a real hurry.

[Hellion Rex]

I'm 26. >.> I got married when I was 19. My husband is 10 years older than me.

Damn, you ancient!

Nah, I'm not too much younger than that lol.

[Sui Causa]

Damn, you ancient!

Nah, I'm not too much younger than that lol.

I realized I didn't actually get married when I was 19, even though it feels like it's been forever I've only been married for like, 5 years. xD

 

I'm not technically old until I hit 27! Once I hit 27, then I'm pretty sure I'm going to have some kind of mid-life crisis, because there's a pretty huge difference between 26 and 27 for some reason. >.> Like the change from being "mid" twenties to "late" twenties?

[Hellion Rex]

I realized I didn't actually get married when I was 19, even though it feels like it's been forever I've only been married for like, 5 years. xD

 

I'm not technically old until I hit 27! Once I hit 27, then I'm pretty sure I'm going to have some kind of mid-life crisis, because there's a pretty huge difference between 26 and 27 for some reason. >.> Like the change from being "mid" twenties to "late" twenties?

Congratulations on 5 years then.

 

Hopefully the USA will get its ass into gear soon so that I can get married in my home state someday.

[Ryzaki]

I'm 26. >.> I got married when I was 19. My husband is 10 years older than me.

 

Ahah. I guess it's more just my personal preference. I just know what I don't like seeing in other subs, especially if I happen to know the dom. But I guess other doms are into it so it's probably less of a bad sub thing and more of just a...things I don't like thing? xD Being disrespectful, manipulative, lazy. People who are there because they think being a sub means you get to flop down and have someone else figure out what you want or need and do all the work without contributing to the process themselves. Ones who are constantly testing their doms, baiting them into doing things they didn't want to do to sabotage a scene, etc. Idunno. It's just stuff I see happen sometimes that makes me mad. >.>

 

Like, for instance, taking advantage of the great services offered by a certain sexy qunari, and then denying him the basic respect of acknowledging they're in a relationship? I'm willing to give Dorian some leeway and a chance to prove himself, but if I saw someone do that to someone I knew IRL, I'd go pretty catty-mode on them in a real hurry.

 

Oh I'm not that much younger than you XD

 

I see! That seems reasonable enough to me though. *shrug*

 

XD you're more kind than I am. Doesn't help I'm jealous that Bull rolls out the welcome wag for Dorian but I have to kill a dragon for him to even compliment my assets. *grumbles*

 

I realized I didn't actually get married when I was 19, even though it feels like it's been forever I've only been married for like, 5 years. xD

 

I'm not technically old until I hit 27! Once I hit 27, then I'm pretty sure I'm going to have some kind of mid-life crisis, because there's a pretty huge difference between 26 and 27 for some reason. >.> Like the change from being "mid" twenties to "late" twenties?

 

I thought it wasn't technically old til you hit 40

[Sui Causa]

Congratulations on 5 years then.

 

Hopefully the USA will get its ass into gear soon so that I can get married in my home state someday.

Thanks!   Now to convince my husband that it would be totally legitimate for us to have an Iron Bull body pillow on our bed, and that he should really look on getting a set of Iron Bull horns to wear around the house, and my fantasy life will be complete!

 

So not happening. xD He didn't seem all that impressed with the Iron Bull pillow, even when I offered to get him a Dorian pillow in exchange. q_q

 

And heyyy, you never know. Dorian might have grabbed one of the teeth from a dead dragon while no one was looking!

[Ryzaki]

Still hoping in DLC Bull can be more flirty towards a romanced quizzy. Because clearly at that point it should be obvious we want the big lug.

[ZerioctheTank]

I can see a bad sub being someone who does not specify what they do not like. You know that person that says I have no limits (or something similar) but 5 minutes into the session they're taking back that earlier comment. Or maybe someone that subs but isn't being submissive per se. I can see some doms really being turned off. Without indulging too much into my personal life I'm one of those subs that won't submit unless you fight me for control. If you will I'm yours if I manage to win......well I do have that mouth gag in my drawer...I think lol.

[Sui Causa]

I can see a bad sub being someone who does not specify what they do not like. You know that person that says I have no limits (or something similar) but 5 minutes into the session they're taking back that earlier comment. Or maybe someone that subs but isn't being submissive per se. I can see some doms really being turned off. Without indulging too much into my personal life I'm one of those subs that won't submit unless you fight me for control. If you will I'm yours if I manage to win......well I do have that mouth gag in my drawer...I think lol.

Yeah, basically if you get someone who either lies about, or just plain doesn't know their limits, but then says they do. But like I said, that type of stuff gets weeded out really fast when you are involved in a group that knows each other well.

 

Being feisty is never a bad thing! That's half the fun! My ability to turn the tables is pretty much null and void because of my size, however. So I'm jealous, cus that's a battle I always, always lose. >_> I'mokaywithlosingitthough.

[Ryzaki]

Hmmm now I have an idea for a scene with quizzy having no clues what their limits are and asking Bull to help them find out

 

Except I have no idea how that would work.

 

[Sui Causa]

Hmmm now I have an idea for a scene with quizzy having no clues what their limits are and asking Bull to help them find out

 

Except I have no idea how that would work.

 

I'm pretty sure Bull would be more than happy to help them explore that. ♥ Since he's so quick to set up the system and get them comfortable and happy. I imagine he'd start slow and try different things just to gauge reaction and go from there. :3

[Ryzaki]

I'm pretty sure Bull would be more than happy to help them explore that. ♥ Since he's so quick to set up the system and get them comfortable and happy. I imagine he'd start slow and try different things just to gauge reaction and go from there. :3

 

Like the tying down during the first session

 

(Also I'm sorry but half the stuff the British male says makes me lose it laughing. The take me and breathless way he goes "I've never done that before." never cease to make me snigger. Then again it's better than the way Sumalee sounded like she was phoning it in...)

[ZerioctheTank]

Yeah, basically if you get someone who either lies about, or just plain doesn't know their limits, but then says they do. But like I said, that type of stuff gets weeded out really fast when you are involved in a group that knows each other well.

Being feisty is never a bad thing! That's half the fun! My ability to turn the tables is pretty much null and void because of my size, however. So I'm jealous, cus that's a battle I always, always lose. >_> I'mokaywithlosingitthough.

I know how the size difference can feel lol. My roommate has 80 pounds on me & if he gets on top of my chest its pretty much over for me. One time that I managed to turn the tides on him I had two sets of cuffs on his bed post and manage to surprise him by tackling him on the bed & got one of his hands cuffed. Took a while to get the other one lol. I enjoy the battle for control almost as much as I enjoy the feeling of giving in, submitting & truly enjoying the moment.

[Sui Causa]

OKAY.

 

Here is the first part of what's going to be a three part thing.

 

(Fanfiction, obv!) This has no sex, is very short, and is pure unadulterated fluff. I was going to write this all out and make it all as one big part, but I've realized that it will be too long that way and will literally kill me.

 

The second part is gonna be...a lot kinkier and darker than anything I've written for these two yet. I'm so ready to write it. ♥ And then the third part is...electric massage, dragon-scented horn balm, and a very, very turned on Iron Bull.

 

But for now, all you get is Cole catching a nug and naming it. And a blushy Lavellan.

 

>.>

[Hellion Rex]

Like the tying down during the first session

(Also I'm sorry but half the stuff the British male says makes me lose it laughing. The take me and breathless way he goes "I've never done that before." never cease to make me snigger. Then again it's better than the way Sumalee sounded like she was phoning it in...)

Jon Curry's version sounded like something straight out of porn. (the good kind lol)

[Ryzaki]

Jon Curry's version sounded like something straight out of porn. (the good kind lol)

 

XD sadly american male voice too deep for me to use. Maybe if I played qunari males but I don't.

[Hellion Rex]

I know how the size difference can feel lol. My roommate has 80 pounds on me & if he gets on top of my chest its pretty much over for me. One time that I managed to turn the tides on him I had two sets of cuffs on his bed post and manage to surprise him by tackling him on the bed & got one of his hands cuffed. Took a while to get the other one lol. I enjoy the battle for control almost as much as I enjoy the feeling of giving in, submitting & truly enjoying the moment.

I guess this is where being 6'5, 220 lbs can come in handy lol.

[Hellion Rex]

XD sadly american male voice too deep for me to use. Maybe if I played qunari males but I don't.

The inflections on the British guy's all make me cringe. I could barely watch DanaDuchy's Dorian romance videos. It set my teeth on edge.

[Ryzaki]

The inflections on the British guy's all make me cringe. I could barely watch DanaDuchy's Dorian romance videos. It set my teeth on edge.

 

What? I love how he talks (mostly.) Fits the noble some of my human guys are perfectly. _{Pretty sure Bull enjoys loosening him up. *cough*}