So y'all, I'm about 3/4 through my second playthrough of DAI, the Solasmance, and it's so different from Bull!
I've been pleasantly surprised by how intensely romantic the Solas storyline is, but -- it's really lonely compared to the warmth and fun of Bull's romance. The story feels emptier and sadder too, not just because of course I know this is not gonna end well -- I have far less approval overall from almost everyone (and several, Sera included, still actually dislike her). I made opposite "big choices" to get a new story feel this time (except for always saving the Chargers! I have to!).
But it's so much quieter without Bull. I mean, romancing Bull, at this point my last Quizzie was basically having hot sex all over Skyhold, drinking with the Chargers, and having a fantastic time saving the world. My current Quizzie, who as a character is very different (Elfy, quieter, chillier) is nevertheless rather lonely at this point (and I feel terrible for her because I know it's only gonna get worse shortly).
While I'm enjoying this playthrough, I feel like the Bull romance was better paced. There were so many opportunities to talk to and spend time with him if you were romancing Bull, and I'm not getting nearly as many of those 'friendship moments' that add depth with Solas (partly, I suspect, for story/suspense reasons). But at this point in the game, I loved how well we knew Bull. I'm missing that now.
The funniest part is that I was so tempted but never flirted with Bull with this Quizzie at all, but then finally in the post-assassination attempt, she had to choose the 'heart' option ("You're still you") and then I was like, "What if he shows up in her room now?? ("I don't know if she's gonna be able to turn him down!") but of course, alas, he did not show up to tempt her, and so her Solasmance was safe. Sigh. Dammit.
On the plus side, I'm having fun watching Bull and Dorian flirt, and honestly, I find it very sweet thus far. They are weirdly guarded yet tender with each other. Right now storywise, I've been running around with Bull, Solas and Dorian, and it's kind of the sweetest thing, because Solas is actually being very comforting of Bull going T-V, and meanwhile Bull is comforting Dorian over his break with his family, with Dorian being very kind in return about the T-V stuff. (And I love how chatty Dorian is -- he talks all the time, after every battle, for instance, and again I just think it's so perfectly in character and such good writing.)
Dorian and Bull are also at the heavy flirting stage, and so far I think it's really pretty lovely. The characters are so brilliantly realized; just as I did when romancing him, I love that Bull has absolutely zero hangups about sex at all -- no guilt, no self-consciousness, and total confidence. While ironically Dorian is a total bundle of nothing but hangups and self-loathing. They're a fascinating couple.
And because I get so little banter (but for some reason the Storm Coast was a banter goldmine yesterday), I only just finally heard the "I. Would. Conquer. You." speech yesterday and admit that yes, I found it hot. And then funny (as always with Bull), when he was, like, "Oops, that wasn't where you were going with it?"
I feel like all the Dorian/Bull interactions end with Dorian feeling a dozen emotions at once -- he's embarrassed, flattered, insulted, interested, turned on (and conflicted at himself for it), and occasionally surprised at Bull's unexpected insight. I feel like if Dorian didn't hate himself so much, he'd have figured out how wonderful Bull is a lot faster than he does.