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[veeia]

I think alot of it comes down to insecurities and irrational fear of being duped somehow, just waiting for them to leave me for a man and such. Personally speaking I've had bad experiences with bisexual women which have left me a little wary to date another, not gonna write them off completely tho. That would be unfair but once bitten and all that, I guess I was just unlucky I suppose. :S

I feel this. I am wary of dating monosexuals in general (well I was before I got married), because my experience has been that a lot of them have problems with or misconceptions about bisexuality. So I would probably be looking for warning signs there when I started seeing them and trying to talk about that right off the bat to make sure they were, if not already cool/informed about it, at least receptive to listening to me and seeing me as a bisexual woman who is monogamous while legitimately attracted to both genders who is not going to be automatically interested in threesomes or whatever. I don't assume it off the bat, nor does it effect my attraction to them or my interest, but it's something I take into account.

[introverted_assassin]

Yo...you can cape for AJ if you choose...I think Crim and Uncle pretty much answered that question for me...as far as how he was being homophobic so...not rehashing that. A lot of those type of channels...I don't mess with. and some of those that do those let's play joints...nah cause I'm not here for your voice...the game brought me there...I mention this because those people begin to feel themselves too much and think net popularity cloaks them and gives them an okay to say all kinds of things. Nah.

homophobia ain't funny and how he could think that if he did...says a lot about his character. That is all I have to say on the matter.

[raging_monkey]

Yo...you can cape for AJ if you choose...I think Crim and Uncle pretty much answered that question for me...as far as how he was being homophobic so...not rehashing that. A lot of those type of channels...I don't mess with. and some of those that do those let's play joints...nah cause I'm not here for your voice...the game brought me there...I mention this because those people begin to feel themselves too much and think net popularity cloaks them and gives them an okay to say all kinds of things. Nah.
homophobia ain't funny and how he could think that if he did...says a lot about his character. That is all I have to say on the matter.

Agreed homophobia isnt funny it show a weak character to attack somebody's preference imo. Im a satirist when it comes to my humour and even then i rarely go there to get a laugh

[veeia]

I also wanna give a huge "you guys are awesome" to this thread, because its great to have a space where the focus is on f/f and is also not alienating to bisexual women (or men.)

[CrimsonN7]

I feel this. I am wary of dating monosexuals in general (well I was before I got married), because my experience has been that a lot of them have problems with or misconceptions about bisexuality. So I would probably be looking for warning signs there when I started seeing them and trying to talk about that right off the bat to make sure they were, if not already cool/informed about it, at least receptive to listening to me and seeing me as a bisexual woman who is monogamous while legitimately attracted to both genders who is not going to be automatically interested in threesomes or whatever. I don't assume it off the bat, nor does it effect my attraction to them or my interest, but it's something I take into account.

 

I actually had to google that word.

 

I feel pretty bad for the Bisexuals in our community at times, they do get alot of unnecessary flack and mistrust.

[veeia]

Haha, yeah I don't think its very common because it's not really useful outside of bi/pan people discussing the common issues they face when interacting with both heterosexuals and the gay community.

[raging_monkey]

I also wanna give a huge "you guys are awesome" to this thread, because its great to have a space where the focus is on f/f and is also not alienating to bisexual women (or men.)

ive said it before.. we are family * hugs and fights urge to cry* Ahem alright im good

[Tevinter Rose]

I also wanna give a huge "you guys are awesome" to this thread, because its great to have a space where the focus is on f/f and is also not alienating to bisexual women (or men.)

 

*high five*

[YourFunnyUncle]

I also wanna give a huge "you guys are awesome" to this thread, because its great to have a space where the focus is on f/f and is also not alienating to bisexual women (or men.)

This is an awesome thread. I came here for Sera but it's been great to hear perspectives on life from people I might not normally interact with, with minimal nastiness and a lot of understanding. I've said it before and I'll say it again: You people are all cool.

[WildOrchid]

I've never dated any bi women, all my past lovers were gay women. But ofc i wouldn't be opposed to dating a bi.

 

Also i do understand Crimmy being wary of bi in general but tbh straight/gay people can also do horrible things as in leaving you for another man/woman. So it's not just the bi ppl, it just so happens the person they cheat on you or breaking up to be with that person is someone of the opposite gender.

[Tevinter Rose]

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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thats definatly interesting rose... i sold on it

[veeia]

bsn: but can u romance/kill shepard??

[YourFunnyUncle]

I've never dated any bi women, all my past lovers were gay women. But ofc i wouldn't be opposed to dating a bi.

 

Also i do understand Crimmy being wary of bi in general but tbh straight/gay people can also do horrible things as in leaving you for another man/woman. So it's not just the bi ppl, it just so happens the person they cheat on you or breaking up to be with that person is someone of the opposite gender.

I think that there's a natural human tendency to treat people who are outside of the group that we consider our own a little differently, even if we don't mean to. It can be something as banal as going on a day trip to a country where a few people treat you rudely. You can form the opinion that "people from x country are rude"  instead of "I met a few rude people today" as you would if you went out for the day in your home town and the same thing happened. We all form these mental shortcuts and it's easy to do it without really thinking about it critically...

[Mira]

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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I knew it! Andraste was Harbringer in disguise all along!

 

I love this comic

 

[Handsome Jack]

Yo...you can cape for AJ if you choose...I think Crim and Uncle pretty much answered that question for me...as far as how he was being homophobic so...not rehashing that. A lot of those type of channels...I don't mess with. and some of those that do those let's play joints...nah cause I'm not here for your voice...the game brought me there...I mention this because those people begin to feel themselves too much and think net popularity cloaks them and gives them an okay to say all kinds of things. Nah.

homophobia ain't funny and how he could think that if he did...says a lot about his character. That is all I have to say on the matter.

 

He wasn't homophobic.

[CrimsonN7]

I've never dated any bi women, all my past lovers were gay women. But ofc i wouldn't be opposed to dating a bi.

 

Also i do understand Crimmy being wary of bi in general but tbh straight/gay people can also do horrible things as in leaving you for another man/woman. So it's not just the bi ppl, it just so happens the person they cheat on you or breaking up to be with that person is someone of the opposite gender.

 

Yeah it's just my track record with em is bad, hence my reluctance to get involved, eh bad experiences would do that to a person. Never fun getting those feels crushed.

[Rel Fexive]

I keep thinking she's in pijamas.

 

....you say that like it's a bad thing.

 

 

That.... that is awesome.

[YourFunnyUncle]

I knew it! Andraste was Harbringer in disguise all along!

 

I love this comic

 

 

That's so much better than the actual song... I much prefer Malukah's Reignite, which gives me DA FEELS every time... (even if the video does only feature Sheploo...)

[Cathey]

I've never been out with a bi woman before (that I know of) but I wouldn't be against it. As far as i'm concerned, if someone likes me (i'm kinda weird looking) then that is all that matters, not who she might have been with in the past.

 

I sing in a local lgbt choir and they are the most amazing group of people. We have a few bi members and everyone loves them. I don't leave the house much so other than what is on tv and such, I don't really know peoples opinions on bi people. I am learning things from this thread

 

So my opinion is: As long as they are a nice person, bi people are good people

 

 

Edit: That Jen Hale video was random

[introverted_assassin]

did not know veeia was married. see...this is why I do not flirt...cause the one person I did flirt with...is married. figures lol

[WildOrchid]

I don't leave the house much

 

Same here tbh. If only i could meet a lady who likes indoor activities more than going out everyday for coffee and other things.

 

I'm such a hermit...

[raging_monkey]

did not know veeia was married. see...this is why I do not flirt...cause the one person I did flirt with...is married. figures lol

same feels like im being "rude" sometimes even if im being playful

[lady_v23]

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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my mind has been illuminated

[CrimsonN7]

did not know veeia was married. see...this is why I do not flirt...cause the one person I did flirt with...is married. figures lol

 

Lol. Was news to me also. Fake marriage is better, it's the closest to actual marriage that I'll ever get *shudders* not for me at all.