Luke usually lurks in the thread so it's possible he will chime in.
Although I'm reserving final judgment until I see that scene in my game, I would still like to hear what he has to say about it.
While waiting for that, new idea came to me - maybe Sera tells the same thing to both male and female Qunari character. I've read here that to anyone else she says something about IB making her wonder how "their" women look like, so obviously it had to be different line for a male Qunari.
Maybe they just saved their time and gave the same dialogue to any Qunari character, but they missed the fact that such comparison sounds vastly different when she says it in reference to someone who was showed to make her act like completely captivated school-girl.
But I guess no one here is playing male Qunari.