As an administrative professional who (not so secretly) collects dolls, and often feels like the caretaker to my family, I really do feel Josephine...however, not in a romantic way. There are some male characters I find way less attractive, but I'd do their romances first just because they feel more plot relevant (I'm sure Solas would feel *so* flattered that I am approaching a romance with him in such a dispassionate way).
As for Cullen, I'm glad he was an option, and personally, I much prefer "safe" male love interests to ones that provide angst and drama. It feels like they tried very hard to make him inoffensive to most, after being divisive, and I understand why that's not as much fun for some folks, but I'm done with drama when it comes to men, at least in my video games, lol. I also like to think about the well being of my characters after the game is over, even if Bioware wants to ruin that for me every time.
One of the reasons I'm putting off a Sera playthrough is that I want to create a character who can run off with her in the end and have a happy ending. I feel like more grounded Inquisitors would have a tough time with that. I just wish I could make an Inquisitor who was as goofy as Sarcastic Hawke. I feel like Sarcastic Hawke and Sera could really hit it off.