ok ... so ... after having played some more ... i realized i love her laugh. as weird as that may sound since it's not a particularly cute one, not in an obvious way anyway ( then again she's not really the most lovable person, not in the obvious, boring way - which is probably why i like her so much
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after having played for 6-7 hours with my male rogue dual wielder ( cause .. that's always what i play, i know, i'm boring ) ... i started a whole new game with a female mage just so i can romance sera ...
to give you an idea of how big of a deal that is - i have never, in my entire life, played a female character by choice. mmo's, dragon age, skyrim ... never played a female character. and i never play mages either. again, unless the game forces me to. ( which in this case it kinda did since i found melee combat to be extremely non-intuitive and counter-productive and annoying since you have no mobility while attacking so i always ended up hitting air )
but for her ... after 20+ hours with a female mage ... totally worth it ...
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edit: i'm playing an elf, they seem to be getting along really, really well ...