PS4 patch is fine. This is just a PC thing.
Yeah I signed in today, it was grand.
Based on what other people have said elf/sera romance is a bad idea.
All depends, if you play your elf as not giving a fig about their culture/religion things will go smoothly, if you play an elf who is leaning towards Andrastian religion you'll be fine or if you play an atheist elf also fine. It can work, it just boils down to your characters beliefs or lack thereof. But as proven if you play one who is deeply proud of their heritage you will have a very rocky romance ahead of you. I experienced it, interesting at times, infuriating at others, it was definitely different.
Also on review of that break-up scene with a Dalish elf my initial anger towards Sera has waned alot, I feel sorry for her more than anything. Didn't like her calling herself stupid, she isn't and I would have loved to have had the opportunity to intervene there and discuss what she didn't get with her. My main issue is the lack of a middle ground with her in that scene, if both could hold on to their belief system, a truce an agree to disagree moment I would have been content.
"Our" being those who find Sera's implementation badly wanting. And you might be surprised; Crimson and Basement Cat both seem inclined.
I just wish we had an opportunity to help Sera grow a lil, she seems to be stagnant, I guess she joined the Inquisition to figure things out for herself but by the end she doesn't seem to evolve in a sense much.
That said, Sera's romance could clearly be turned into a bisexual one far more easily than Dorian's. Her sexuality is much less prevalent in her plot in general.
I was hoping for some insight into her experiences as a young gay elf in Thedas, anything. When you look at Dorian's personal quest and you look at Sera's well... pity just seems a wasted opportunity.
But this was a *perfect* opportunity to talk, even a little, about how city elves view homosexuality. Or, if she's with a dalish elf, we could have gotten more info from the Inquisitor on how her clan would feel about her being with Sera, since we didn't get much information from Merrill on the topic.
I don't think saying that Sera doesn't "label" herself is enough of an excuse to totally dance around the many ways she could have talked about how her sexuality affects her life, even if it's small ways.
When you're heterosexual, representation is so complete it becomes invisible. I mean, tv shows made for toddlers reinforce and value heterosexual romantic love. It may not seem like a big deal to have *one* lesbian character who isn't waving a pride flag, but that's the only one. And when I'm constantly told that the only "good" way to be a "good lesbian" is to not be a "stereotype", it kind of feels like showing any kind of hint of my sexuality is seen as gross and insulting, and "too much" for straight people. So when I see what is supposed to be representation in a game, and it appears to be held to that standard of "not TOO much lady gay, unless she's turning down a boy or talking about sexy ladies!", it gets old.
And yeah, there are characters who don't hate Sera, but I don't think any other companion gets as much negativity from asking about them.
Well said.
Also for many who aren't from our side of the fence you can't relate to this issue of representation, you can sympathize but you can't identify so saying it shouldn't be that big of a deal if she doesn't have much gay content to her story because it would be cliched or another tired stereotype well no, you need characters like this in media. To be out there, to be seen, we have so few as it is.