When I look at the game Cass is everything I thought she would be and I wish she could have been a female Li but the way it is my inquisitors have to just enjoy being friends with her.
Sera is special too me, her issues make me identify with her more than any character. Growing up confused, sad and later extremely angry, somehow it makes me feel for Sera. It's difficult for me to express why I identify with her so much and why I'm so sensitive to the hatred and disappointment in her character by so many. All I want to do is have my inquisitors make her feel good about herself and help her, I just wish there was a way to really help her with some of the issues. I'm also quiet and introverted which for me makes Sera appealing as she's the opposite of me, which can be a very good thing.
Josie is so sweet and pretty but I just haven't been able to romance her, she had the disadvantage of being so opposite of Cass and I just couldn't get interested due to how hung up I was on Cass. It's going to be difficult now as all I want to do is romance Sera. In DA2 I romanced Isabela about nine times and Merrill once I can see this happening again.
Another character that I find a strange kind of identification with is Cole, being invisible, forgettable and feeling pain when someone is hurting are things I've felt or feel now. It actually has made it difficult to be around Cole very much.
Same here , for Josie I mean . And cass....pffff...that women is a killer
in a good way and smexyness and hot hot hot....and well..everything !!
I mean..she has...I dare say kinda Aribeth Quality....save for the whole 'Ditch Tyr cose he let me down first' .......
But they are similar....and ya know....I loved Aribeth so much...Argh I grived for her for so long...(still I'm..just raging less ) 
I don't identify with Cole . Honestly....I'm still wondering wth he is doing there.....he was interesting in the book..but in the game..he went from man to a kid..thats just bizzare....
Ohh dont mention Bela !!!! I miss her wit and that bossom
Yeah Shameless I tell ya ! 