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[LightningPoodle]

Then I still have to deal with them until they're 18. No thank you.

 

I'd rather travel the world and spend money on expensive dinners than kidlets. Do you know how much money it costs to raise a kid? 

 

A million pounds.  I can see your reasoning though. I too want to travel before I even think about kids but to be perfectly honest, I've already thought of a name I'd like for a girl. Elise because it's so fancy! 

[wintery]

If that's selfish, then I'm totally fine with being selfish! 

 

It's not selfish. Not the least bit.

 

Someone else wanting to control whether or not you do... that's selfishness.

[Lady Luminous]

Crazy story

 

Dated a woman about eight years ago. Turns out that she had some issues and was not even remotely close to being a good person, but hid both pretty well. Once she started to show her real self. I started looking for the door and quick. Because she knew I was the kind of guy that would stick around for the sake of a kid, she started pulling all sorts of a crap in an effort to get pregnant by me. Once that started, I had a vasectomy and took off. Few years later she pop'ed up and tried to take me to court for child support. The look on her face was priceless when the judge started looking at the medical bills and realized that there was no way in hell the kid could be mine. Simply because she became pregnant about 4 tot 5 months after I had the surgery and took off. 

 

Wow, women are insane. Seriously, I hear all these stories and it's like... just because you have a uterus does not mean you get to pull crazy stunts and get paid off for it!

[LightningPoodle]

Crazy story

 

Dated a woman about eight years ago. Turns out that she had some issues and was not even remotely close to being a good person, but hid both pretty well. Once she started to show her real self. I started looking for the door and quick. Because she knew I was the kind of guy that would stick around for the sake of a kid, she started pulling all sorts of a crap in an effort to get pregnant by me. Once that started, I had a vasectomy and took off. Few years later she pop'ed up and tried to take me to court for child support. The look on her face was priceless when the judge started looking at the medical bills and realized that there was no way in hell the kid could be mine. Simply because she became pregnant about 4 tot 5 months after I had the surgery and took off. 

 

You had a vasectomy? How old were you?

[raging_monkey]

Exactly! That's a down payment on a house or a really nice car, or a cruise around the Mediterranean! 
 
If that's selfish, then I'm totally fine with being selfish!

agreed while kids are great for some i like my hedonistic lifestyle. only kid i need is my dog(technically brother at this point)

[Lady Luminous]

A million pounds.  I can see your reasoning though. I too want to travel before I even think about kids but to be perfectly honest, I've already thought of a name I'd like for a girl. Elise because it's so fancy! 

 

And that is why I play video games, to use all the names I love on my fictional children.  

[Lady Luminous]

It's not selfish. Not the least bit.

 

Someone else wanting to control whether or not you do... that's selfishness.

 

You are a wonderful, precious person.

[raging_monkey]

Crazy story
 
Dated a woman about eight years ago. Turns out that she had some issues and was not even remotely close to being a good person, but hid both pretty well. Once she started to show her real self. I started looking for the door and quick. Because she knew I was the kind of guy that would stick around for the sake of a kid, she started pulling all sorts of a crap in an effort to get pregnant by me. Once that started, I had a vasectomy and took off. Few years later she pop'ed up and tried to take me to court for child support. The look on her face was priceless when the judge started looking at the medical bills and realized that there was no way in hell the kid could be mine. Simply because she became pregnant about 4 tot 5 months after I had the surgery and took off.

shite... i lack any sarcastic remarks... just questions... does it hurt, does it cost alot * asks thousands of questions*

[LightningPoodle]

Exactly! That's a down payment on a house or a really nice car, or a cruise around the Mediterranean! 

 

If that's selfish, then I'm totally fine with being selfish! 

 

That's not selfish. If you don't want kids, don't have them. Better for the yet to be formed child because they don't have to grow up in an environment where they aren't wanted.

[Lady Luminous]

agreed while kids are great for some i like my hedonistic lifestyle. only kid i need is my dog(technically brother at this point)

 

My two collies are the best fur-siblings. They are all the children I want. 

[wintery]

Huh, I found out that Malindo Lo wrote a short story sequel to The Huntress and it's online.

[LightningPoodle]

And that is why I play video games, to use all the names I love on my fictional children.

 

I don't plan on having kids until I'm at least in my mid 30's and I've travelled a bit and locked down a successful career that pays well.

[wintery]

My two collies are the best fur-siblings. They are all the children I want. 

 

I still miss my cat terribly.

[raging_monkey]

My two collies are the best fur-siblings. They are all the children I want.

i have a terrier named mr wiggles aka wigs( oringilally named clyde by my ex but my mother retconed him )

I still miss my cat terribly.

its ok time heals all wounds

[wintery]

its ok time heals all wounds

 

It's been several years. Time is taking its time.

[Lady Luminous]

I still miss my cat terribly.

 

I'm sorry to hear that. It's always hard to say goodbye. I still miss my little mutt Chica and both my cats. 

[raging_monkey]

It's been several years. Time is taking its time.

well father time sleeps on the job unfortunatly but we got ya.

[Lady Luminous]

It's been several years. Time is taking its time.

 

I find it always aches a little bit to think about them. Animals take a little piece of your heart, and you never truly get it back even when they're gone. 

[raging_monkey]

I find it always aches a little bit to think about them. Animals take a little piece of your heart, and you never truly get it back even when they're gone.

they are the only ones who accept you unconditionally

A pox on those who betray that trust

[Lady Luminous]

You guuuuys, where did everyone go?

 

Y'all are supposed to be entertaining me at work!

[raging_monkey]

You guuuuys, where did everyone go?
 
Y'all are supposed to be entertaining me at work!

im here

[Lady Luminous]

im here

 

Oh good, but where did  everyone else scatter off to? 

[wintery]

I had to do some work in another room, sorry.

 

And I got a papercut from a box. That seems wrong somehow

[Lady Luminous]

I had to do some work in another room, sorry.

 

And I got a papercut from a box. That seems wrong somehow

 

Box papercuts are sooo painful. Owwie, that sucks.