I haven't read any of this but as the series has gone on I have less and less issues with the mods as it's becoming obvious that pretty much every important companion is going to be straight.
Indeed, and for me personally the most disappointing thing was seeing Gaider's post on his Tumblr about Sera: "We were aware before the game went out that she’d be very divisive, but I’d suggest that’s the mark of a strong character and not a weak one".
Why I have problem with this? Because it shows that therefore satisfaction of lesbian players, so many times neglected before, and lesbian representation which frankly so far has been terrible in Bioware games was the last thing in their minds, while it was obviously a different story with Dorian. With him, it was all what Gaider said on some panel about representation of women and minorities:
[Gaider] urges those who choose to design minority characters to consider their roles and purpose in the game. Additionally, he suggests those of privilege to seek out possible groups affected by design choices and talk to them, or if security requires it not leave the office, to hire diversely. Their unique viewpoints, he said, should be considered “assets,” not “affirmative action.”