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#87851
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If beauty is subjective (as everyone says) then there are no beauty standards.



#87852
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If you can come up with a better word, I'm all ears. I just mean more or less in line with Body Mass Index. It's not meant to be ideal... like some greek god/goddess.

oh i wasnt being rude/judgy just talking aloud ate lunch so im chatty again

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If beauty is subjective (as everyone says) then there are no beauty standards.

 

Blame Plato. He created the world of ideals and standards.

 

 

It's very much like how the Qunari think.... having a defintive image of everything they categorize. Deviate and that thing doesn't live up to it's true "being".

 

That's why they suck.



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The whole issue hit's close to home for me. My mother battled a very bad negative self image issue for years. I also last a friend who was like a sister a few years back due to the fallout of her negative self image issue. She ended up getting implants, other work done and towards the end, she became a hardcore anorexic. Her body simply started to give out. If you had seen her before things started to get bad, you would have had a hard time wrapping your head around the idea that she even had negative self image issues. She could have been a alternative model and raked in massive amounts of cash doing it. 

 

Sorry to hear that. It's hard to convince them too.. I've experienced it.

 

I might've even struggled myself in some way growing up..But racially.



#87855
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As a female I have had advertisers tell me what "beauty" is.  I've had "Hollywood" tell me what beauty is, but at the end of the day it is up to each of us to shut that noise out.

 

I absolutely watch no television aside from Game of Thrones anymore because I don't need the commercials and mass mind rape, nor do I need to be told what I think about the news from someone no more qualified than me to tell me.  Read the damn news and leave your commentary and slant out of it.

 

Marketing is a trillion dollar industry in this world.  You will not be able to stop it.  So instead of saying how wrong it is and telling yourself you are a victim to it, we should build our emotional muscles and self-love.  If you can't love yourself, how the hell can you love somebody else?

 

I mean, that's the truth.  As the Buddha said, "You as much as anyone else in the Universe is deserving of your own love".


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Is the site acting funny for everyone else? Seems like I'm hanging when I try to post.



#87857
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Blame Plato. He created the world of ideals and standards.

 

 

It's very much like how the Qunari think.... having a defintive image of everything they categorize. Deviate and that thing doesn't live up to it's true "being".

 

That's why they suck.

 

I don't blame anyone for anything.  I think everyone should do mushrooms (or wish they could) once to change their world view so that they quit looking at media, plastic stuff, and all the "bad" in the world.

 

Look around this forum--most people are good people.  Listen to the news and the world is falling apart because everyone is a racist, a bigot, a murderer in waiting, a terrorist, a baby killer, etc.

 

It's just not true.  Not true at all.

 

The world leans towards an average and most people are not ugly, not unattractive, and all of us are capable of finding love.  We need to remember the good in ourselves and others.



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Is the site acting funny for everyone else? Seems like I'm hanging when I try to post.

 

Good, not just me.



#87859
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'Lexia, you've got a weakness for any woman. pretty much any woman.


You say that as if it's a bad thing. :P


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I don't blame anyone for anything.  I think everyone should do mushrooms once to change their world view so that they quit looking at media, plastic stuff, and all the "bad" in the world.

 

Look around this forum--most people are good people.  Listen to the news and the world is falling apart because everyone is a racist, a bigot, a murderer in waiting, a terrorist, a baby killer, etc.

 

It's just not true.  Not true at all.

 

The world leans towards an average and most people are not ugly, not unattractive, and all of us are capable of finding love.  We need to remember the good in ourselves and others.

 

I recommend against shrooms. I was telling monkey about this the other day :D

 

Unless you like throwing up foam and staring at inanimate objects for hours on end..


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#87861
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yo...what's with you and this mushroom advocacy? i saw you pushing that in another thread. sup with that?
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Is the site acting funny for everyone else? Seems like I'm hanging when I try to post.

 

No it's pretty laggy.



#87863
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Is the site acting funny for everyone else? Seems like I'm hanging when I try to post.


It's laggy for me too.



#87864
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You say that as if it's a bad thing. :P

 

What about a lady killer?



#87865
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Blame Plato. He created the world of ideals and standards.


It's very much like how the Qunari think.... having a defintive image of everything they categorize. Deviate and that thing doesn't live up to it's true "being".

That's why they suck.

out of all the times i say they were a extreme of plato's republic i get no like :P you wound me haha

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It seems the hiccups have stopped. Usually I get double posts when this happens.

 

edit: Err nvm. Still hanging.


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#87867
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yes it's lagging cause several posts hit before mine -_-

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out of all the times i say they were a extreme of plato's republic i get no like :P you wound me haha

 

I didn't know you said that too. I would totally give you a like. 

 

I'm just out of them now.



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Artemis Leonhart

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What about a lady killer?


I don't know, what about it?



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The main problem with weight is health and lifestyle. But you could still be overweight and hot. I just think aftter a certain point, that doesn't work anymore. It's not even about making people live up to ideals as just encouraging health and their best selves.

 

That's part of the reason I'm getting into skating and clean eating. For a long time I was okay with being a bigger girl because I still felt pretty.

 

Now it takes a lot of effort into feeling pretty that I'd rather just put into a good lifestyle instead. 



#87871
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yo...what's with you and this mushroom advocacy? i saw you pushing that in another thread. sup with that?

well appearently mushrooms are good to advocate it. Grim and i were discussing the tranquility ones

#87872
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I don't know, what about it?

 

I don't think lady killer is the right name...  :unsure:



#87873
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I so dislike tge term average it implies a universal ideal. Imo "average" is the best

 

To me the word average is equivalent to "fine" (as in okay) so I bloody hate it. 



#87874
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To me the word average is equivalent to "fine" (as in okay) so I bloody hate it. 

 

Nothing you need give much thought or worry too though. :)



#87875
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I recommend against shrooms. I was telling monkey about this the other day :D

 

Unless you like throwing up foam and staring at inanimate objects for hours on end..

 

I'm on Terrence McKenna level of heroic doses and never had that problem.  Best thing I ever did with my life, aside from meeting my boo.

 

Of course they're illegal which is why I don't advocate people do them.  I just wish they could.