Ah, so more like:
"That's my primary frustration with how they wrote Sera in the game and with most of the dialogue options presented. She doesn't do or say the things I want her to so that she will support my view of Thedas."
That's pretty much my take on your take on things. I can see it is frustrating for you... and for everyone who has to keep hearing it. Again. And again.
To be fair Rel, many lesbians were looking forward to playing as an elf and having the first lesbian DA character being so negative towards elf inquisitors was a rather rude awakening. Before the game came out it was thought that this could happen with nobles but actually she has no issues with a noble, even with the explanations that people have given it still doesn't sit well with me. Every one wants to feel the same enjoyment that someone who plays qunari feels, the feeling of being left out, right or wrong is still going to be there. Sometimes it still bothers me to think that Sera can't possibly care for my inquisitors as much as others but what's my choice playing a character I don't want to play, romancing someone else or romancing no one. Not the best situation for an elfy lesbian. I can handle the divisive nature of the character but do you remember how excited some people were before the game came out, truly excited to play as an elf, I'm sure it annoyed some who wanted to play as a different race.
I still remember a post where someone let there frustrations out after the game released, taking a shot at people who enjoyed playing as an elf. It bothered me so much that I had no desire to play as a qunari or even look at one again. It's no fun being the one that's being shitted on, to be fair I have other issues with playing qunari, just due to my height and situation but that's another story. I've been able to enjoy Sera but I still have feels for those that struggle or were disappointed with what happened, as I was disappointed also.