I've never seen nor can recall a legitimate character who managed to meet all his criteria, male or female.
But I have seen some who have failed all of them, and let me tell you, it's not restricted to gender. In a game where the writing of characters is that bad, the male's are just as boringly, cringey, and face palmingly written as the females. It's more trying to pass off badly written characters as being something of a pandemic to female characters, when the scurge is against all characters, since the men are just as afflicted as the women.
He pointed out well writen female characters don't count because of what happens in their past involving another person getting wronged and that sending them on a path of badass revenge, or changing them into the person they are now. But what about every male character who lost something in their past and that's the primary reason they do the stuff they do? Or doing it because one of their significant others was put in danger? Or doing it because someone was their idol before and they did it?
Seems much less a female written lead problem and much more a character writing problem. Tying in backstories and personalities to looks was, in my opinion, a poor strategic move on jim's part to try and persuade others to see things from his point of view. It raises too many loop holes.
That is a legitimate issue you bring up.
Poor writing does affect both genders.
Poor writing tends to affect both genders differently though.
Poorly written male character:
Scared mid 30s caucasian grunting low pithed husky male.
Brooding troubled man on a quest for vengeance and redemption (because those two goals don't conflict at all).
Sounds a bit like Batman and has only one character trait (aside from all the brooding). Killing lots of enemies.
Poorly written female character:
Pretty 20 something who needs ID to enter night clubs (because she looks so young).
Free spirited whimsy clumsy and more feminine than the most feminine woman on the planet.
Heck she is so cookie in a feminine way that she is from another planet.
She is the redemption for the poorly written male character.
Oh and she gets captured a lot, giving our grumpy male protagonist a goal.
Then she gets killed so that in the sequel the grumpy male protagonist can reach hulk levels of angry (because he wasn't angry enough in the first game).