So you're saying everyone here is a poser?
I'd like to think so, but.. you never know.
I think people tend to pose and exaggerate, yes. I've met a lot of people in my life, many weirdos among them, still most just exaggerate for a bit of spotlight.
But apart from that I just wouldn't care. In my world everybody can do whatever he likes as long as he does not hurt anybody (who is not willing) in the process. You can apply this to whatever topic. Warder himself said he does not force other people into it, he only does whatever exactly he really does to those who also want it. If two people want to hurt each other, fine, why not. It's no different from a fight club after all.
So my point is: he is not dangerous, he does not harm people who do not want it. Hence, if he actually executes what he talks about or not is irrelevant.
If you don't want to hear something it's best not to comment on it. Because if some people realize they can annoy you with something they will exploit it. That's like answering Xil and then complaining that she stirs up an argument. We all know she likes to argue so if we don't feel like going there it's best not to reply at all. Don't keep pouring oil into the fire if you want it to die. Only do it if you want to see the flames rise.
I don't go out and club baby seals, but I do engage in BDSM.
I've got just as much bite as I do bark, so to speak.
I spoke of the other way round: only because somebody kills for pleasure/business it does not necessarily imply he is into SM. He might be. Or a SM fan might accidentally find out he is also into clubbing seals. But that's just two different things that can but don't have to occur together because they are not related.