? Lol no. I only brought that up to show it doesn't mean anything. It doesn't suddenly make all weird occasions in the story ok. You missed the point.
Stating things that are not normal in other instances doesn't mean that all of them are the same in every scenario. It doesn't make this any less stupid.
No, I rather think you missed my point, which is simply: sometimes we do have exceptions in life. They exist and these sisters may just belong to them. Like Cass is an exception for being the sort of woman she is, like Sera is an exception of being this grown up child, like Dorian is an exception for opposing Tevinter etc. There's no whole bunch of Dorians or Seras, neither in Thedas nor in the real world. But sometimes individuals just do break the rules.
And of course they do not make "all weird occasions in the story ok". The whole issue around Bull is buggy. His weird reaction to the personal quest most of all. "Kill the Chargers, stick to the Qun!" -- "Ok boss, that's cool" (Bull approves); "Save the chargers, damn the Qun!" -- "Ok boss, that's cool!" (Bull approves). I don't like that, just as little as I like making the decision for him etc. etc. But that does not mean I don't accept the basic idea that sometimes there are exceptions.
I just don't think the BW writers dislike the church or religion so much that they try to show this by bashing the Chantry. That's where I am coming from here. Unless you disagree, which you may of course.