But it's not glorifying war with demons or anything? The entire subject is to glorify. No one needs to learn the harsh brutal lessons of life from their entertainment. I'm all for realistic people, but the second a party member that I center a team around dies in an instant for no reason but just because war is bad, the game's gone a little too far.
War isn't bad, its unpredictable, sporadic, chaotic.
Experience, Training, Equipment, all of these things prepare and arm you for it but it doesn't remove the risk, the danger.
I won't call on my own experiences for explanation but let's say a heavy Orlesian cavalry division descends upon the Inquisition from the flank forces while they are doing a charge upon a fortress.
Would you not expect your forces to take horrendous losses because they cannot form a pike or spearline?