There's a lot assumption about why T'soni is hated.
For me it started when you first see her on Therum. If you save her early in the game she never shuts up between missions. The other is I had no choice in her being a squadmate. After you she mentions Ilos, she is telling you to let the Council know and get them to assemble their fleets. Who the **** does she think she is telling Shepard what to do? Again where's Javik when you need him to throw the thing out the airlock. On your way to Ilos, why is T'soni, Tali and Ashley/Kaidan in the cockpit. There now giving advice to Joker. What a pile of crap. Why don't we have Joker go on a mission advising the squadmates on what to do.
I hate all ME1 characters because none of them went to the crash site of the SR1 to pay their respects to ones who were killed. It tells you they didn't give a flying **** about them especially dumb and dumber(Anderson and Hackett). What did they do, they scattered like cockroaches to different parts of the galaxy like nothing ever happened.
With T'soni, I can't challenge her on anything she says. The reason she gave me to Cerberus. The armor in her apartment. The pathetic story about my dogtags. I have a what-the-crap hug if I want to recruit Thane and Samara on Illium. The same can be said about all the ME1 characters. You can't challenge them on why nothing was done in the last 2 years. Or at least why no effort was made.
ME3 I have to put up having to deal with ME1 characters. T'soni having scenes that don't mean crap to me. The Thessia crap(the worst mission in the trilogy) and then to hear smurfette saying if only we could have Alliance air support. Where was the renegade interrupt to either tell her off or to smash her upside the head. Then I have to say sorry to the peice of crap councillor. But its all the Asari where they can do no wrong and why we have to be so nicey-nice with T'soni.
Yes you can ignore her throughout the game, but you still get the cutscenes, 3 in paticular that don't mean crap, with her that is unavoidable.
Yeah, sorry but all this just seems like hate for the characters motivates these points instead of the other way around. Which makes it hard to take any of them seriously, even though there are some good role-playing points.
And as people have said, who's to say they didn't visit the crash site? The dog tags don't mean ****. How many memorials have you attended where you've gone on a scavenger hunt? Also realism about dogtag locations and Hackett asking you to look for them etc. Pretend that part didn't happen. And speaking of Hackett, his email to start the quest implies the crash site was just found. Which also doesn't make since the escape pods presumably don't have FTL and were picked up at some point...
Look it has holes alright. I think for the sake of logic and sanity we should just ignore the details. You go, pay your respects, get the reminiscing flashbacks and you leave. End of story, let's move on.
Also on topic: Yeah we really don't need a Liara hate thread. Like at all. The valid criticisms have already been stated ad nausem. As has the hate, really. I predict this is going to become another "talk about whatever" thread.