There are hints of it and it's not so much in how Hawke or Merrill behave but rather how the themes are potentially problematic. Hawke shouldn't be in the middle of ANY of Merrill's swabbles with her clan, but that is how the narrative took it.
That's...part of playing a BW protagonist. The PC is almost always in business that should've been done personally by the companions. (SWTOR had a nice twist where companions did personal missions well...personally and even then they sometimes dragged you along and you got to make decisions for them). PC can do this regardless or race and species...
I mean the PC should've let Leliana decide whether Marjoline dies or not...instead he/she pretty much makes the decision for Leliana who goes along with it.
Same with Alistair being king. PC makes the choice he goes along with it.
ME? You can make some really ridiculous choices and everyone goes along with it. You might lose their loyalty (Tali's trial) but she doesn't do anything to stop you.
Legion? He asks you to decide the fate of the heretics.
Mordin asks you what to do with the genophage data...
Paragoning or renegading Jack (with it's creepy might as well have Darth Vader music playing in the background for the renegade choice)
If you see that as mighty whitey I don't see how you don't have problems with 90% of BW's protags...